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ISLAM & POLYANDRY : - Muhammad Adnan Arshad - 01-23-2006 The Most Basic Question (Islamic Issue of The West) If a man is allowed to have more than one wife, then why does Islam prohibit a woman from having more than one husband? Answer A lot of people, including some Muslims, question the logic of allowing Muslim men to have more than one spouse while denying the same ârightâ to women. Let me first state emphatically, that the foundation of an Islamic society is justice and equity. Allah has created men and women as equal, but with different capabilities and different responsibilities. Men and women are different, physiologically and psychologically. Their roles and responsibilities are different. Men and women are equal in Islam, but not identical. Surah Nisaâ Chapter 4 verses 22 to 24 gives the list of women with whom Muslim men can not marry. It is further mentioned in Surah Nisaâ Chapter 4 verse 24 âAlso (prohibited are) women already marriedâ The following points enumerate the reasons why polyandry is prohibited in Islam 1. If a man has more than one wife, the parents of the children born of such marriages can easily be identified. The father as well as the mother can easily be identified. In case of a woman marrying more than one husband, only the mother of the children born of such marriages will be identified and not the father. Islam gives tremendous importance to the identification of both parents, mother and father. Psychologists tell us that children who do not know their parents, especially their father undergo severe mental trauma and disturbances. Often they have an unhappy childhood. It is for this reason that the children of prostitutes do not have a healthy childhood. If a child born of such wedlock is admitted in school, and when the mother is asked the name of the father, she would have to give two or more names! I am aware that recent advances in science have made it possible for both the mother and father to be identified with the help of genetic testing. Thus this point which was applicable for the past may not be applicable for the present. 2. Man is more polygamous by nature as compared to a woman. 3. Biologically, it is easier for a man to perform his duties as a husband despite having several wives. A woman, in a similar position, having several husbands, will not find it possible to perform her duties as a wife. A woman undergoes several psychological and behavioral changes due to different phases of the menstrual cycle. 4. A woman who has more than one husband will have several *****ual partners at the same time and has a high chance of acquiring venereal or *****ually transmitted diseases which can also be transmitted back to her husband even if all of them have no extra-marital *****. This is not the case in a man having more than one wife, and none of them having extra-marital *****. The above reasons are those that one can easily identify. There are probably many more reasons why Allah, in His Infinite Wisdom, has prohibited polyandry. «·´`·.(*·.¸(`·.¸ ¸.·´)¸.·*).·´`·» «.......... A D N A N ...............» «·´`·.(¸.·*(¸.·´ `·.¸)*·.¸).·´`·» [email protected] - rabia-k - 02-10-2010 i wouldn't mind my husband marry 2, 3, 5, 10 ,20 times so long as i get my share of love/care/respect etc from him. ) - Dard - 02-10-2010 <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, san" id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by rabia-k</i> <br />i wouldn't mind my husband marry 2, 3, 5, 10 ,20 times so long as i get my share of love/care/respect etc from him. ) <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"> That is quite rare in todays world - yasir_live - 02-10-2010 <font size="1"><blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, san" id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by rabia-k</i> <br />i wouldn't mind my husband marry 2, 3, 5, 10 ,20 times so long as i get my share of love/care/respect etc from him. ) <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"></font id="size1"> Syaasi Byaaan [D], Kisi or thread ki recovery is thread main chal rahi hay. Aap ki asal zehniat to kisi aur thread main samnaay aahi chuki hay, Ab syaasi byanaat ka sahaar lia ja raha hay [D], Wahaan kuch kahaa Aur yahaan Kuch Kahaa [^] Kya Yeh khulaa tezaad nahi haaaay [0] - rabia-k - 02-11-2010 <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, san" id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by yasir_live</i> <br /><font size="1"><blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, san" id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by rabia-k</i> <br />i wouldn't mind my husband marry 2, 3, 5, 10 ,20 times so long as i get my share of love/care/respect etc from him. ) <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"></font id="size1"> Syaasi Byaaan [D], Kisi or thread ki recovery is thread main chal rahi hay. Aap ki asal zehniat to kisi aur thread main samnaay aahi chuki hay, Ab syaasi byanaat ka sahaar lia ja raha hay [D], Wahaan kuch kahaa Aur yahaan Kuch Kahaa [^] Kya Yeh khulaa tezaad nahi haaaay [0] <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"> syaasi bayan?? tezaad?? - rabia-k - 02-11-2010 <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, san" id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by yasir_live</i> <br />[size=1][quote]<i>Originally posted by rabia-k</i> <br /> Aap ki asal zehniat to kisi aur thread main samnaay aahi chuki hay, Ab syaasi byanaat ka sahaar lia ja raha hay [D], <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"> Aap apni zehniyat pe bhi ek nazar dal lein ..larki dekhi nahi ke shuru hogaye flirt karna forum per [p] - yasir_live - 02-11-2010 <font size="1"><blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, san" id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by rabia-k</i> <br /><blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, san" id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by yasir_live</i> <br />[size=1][quote]<i>Originally posted by rabia-k</i> <br /> Aap ki asal zehniat to kisi aur thread main samnaay aahi chuki hay, Ab syaasi byanaat ka sahaar lia ja raha hay [D], <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"> Aap apni zehniyat pe bhi ek nazar dal lein ..larki dekhi nahi ke shuru hogaye flirt karna forum per [p] <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"></font id="size1"> Ek <b>Shareef</b> Larkaay per is tarah ka Ilzaam lagatay huaay Aap ko Sharam nahi i [?], Log humari Sharafat or sanjeedgi ki misaalain detain hain Aur Aap hum per Flert jesa Budnaam Ilzaam laga rahi hain. Larki to Aaj tak is forum per nazar nahi i. Well BTW Forum per ek esa Option hona chaiyey k Post k saath Tasweer bhi Aye, Jesaay doosraay forums per hota hay. Rabia Aap ki zehniat to asi hay, k Ek larka kisi larki say agar time bhi Pooch laay to aap Flert ka Faisla suna dati ho. Pata nahi kya hoga tumharay Shoher ka Woh to mera khayaal hay dunya main NAKAAB ker k ghoomay ga Jisaay tum jaisi Shakki Bv milay gi. - rabia-k - 02-11-2010 <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, san" id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by yasir_live</i> <br /><font size="1"><blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, san" id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by rabia-k</i> <br />[quote]<i>Originally posted by yasir_live</i> <br />[size=1][quote]<i>Originally posted by rabia-k</i> <br /> Aap ki asal zehniat to kisi aur thread main samnaay aahi chuki hay, Ab syaasi byanaat ka sahaar lia ja raha hay [D], <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"> Aap apni zehniyat pe bhi ek nazar dal lein ..larki dekhi nahi ke shuru hogaye flirt karna forum per [p] <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"></font id="size1"> Ek <b>Shareef</b> Larkaay per is tarah ka Ilzaam lagatay huaay Aap ko Sharam nahi i [?], Log humari Sharafat or sanjeedgi ki misaalain detain hain Aur Aap hum per Flert jesa Budnaam Ilzaam laga rahi hain. Larki to Aaj tak is forum per nazar nahi i. Well BTW Forum per ek esa Option hona chaiyey k Post k saath Tasweer bhi Aye, Jesaay doosraay forums per hota hay. Rabia Aap ki zehniat to asi hay, k Ek larka kisi larki say agar time bhi Pooch laay to aap Flert ka Faisla suna dati ho. Pata nahi kya hoga tumharay Shoher ka Woh to mera khayaal hay dunya main NAKAAB ker k ghoomay ga Jisaay tum jaisi Shakki Bv milay gi. [/quot Hilarious! [D][D] .tumko dusre ki zehniyat pe tana daete huae sharam nahi aye? jaisa likho gae waise hi suno gae i know you are very "shareef" [D] - Dard - 02-11-2010 Relax guys. Main judge ban jaoon?p - Osama Rules - 02-12-2010 Salam, Plz guys get a LIFE!! Anyways regardingthis topic; One major reason is that there are far more men than women so to keep the balance in this world man have this right which woman don't otherwise MARKET would be saturated & many women wont have a guy to marry with!![})] ALLAH knows BEST.[)] Regards. - Dard - 02-12-2010 <blockquote id="quote"><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, san" id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"><i>Originally posted by Osama Rules</i> <br />Salam, Plz guys get a LIFE!! Anyways regardingthis topic; One major reason is that there are far more men than women so to keep the balance in this world man have this right which woman don't otherwise MARKET would be saturated & many women wont have a guy to marry with!![})] ALLAH knows BEST.[)] Regards. <hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></font id="quote"></blockquote id="quote"> Right, in many countries there are more women than men |