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Love or parents... - Sh.Mohsin - 09-04-2010
From last 6 to 8 months, mere 3 freinds/colleagues ne apne parents ki marzi k khilaaf love marriage ki or wo ab apne parents k saath nhi rehte or un k parents bhi un se bohot naraz hain.
And they are just living hand to mouth with their wives in rented quarters/rooms.
Please comment, if you have to choose whether to get love or obey the parents what will be your decision?
- Sarfaraz Khan - 09-04-2010
20-25 Saal ki ma bap ki mohabat aek lamhai main kise larki ki liye chor de na maire samjh se baha ha..
ese tarah waldain main b etne samjdar hona chaye k bacha agar kis ko pasand karta hai to us ki pasand ka bhi khayal rakhain..apni ana na bana lain..
wo jo alag rah rahe hain..ab jo hona tha ho chuka..un ko wapis apni ma bap k qadmon man ja kar mafi mang laina haye..wo yaqenan maf karden gai galai laga lain gai..or us larki ko b apni baho accept kar lain gai..ma bap k dil etnai pathar nahi ho tai..pegal he jatai hain..
but es k liye first step bachon ko he laina ho ga..
- WARDAH - 09-04-2010
aisa hi koi topic i think pehly discuss ho chuka hai but as tumny specific q kiya hai to....ye to scenario py depend krta hai tenon k halaat kia rahay hongy jo unko apny parents k khilaaf hona pra.agechy bchy jzbati hoty hain unki baat or soch ko ziada tr galet hi lia or smjha jata hai.but mai ye ni kehti k humaisha parents hi sahi hoty hain wo bhi insan hai galti un sy bhi ho skti hai smjhanay mai bhi smjhny mai bhi.akser parents isko apni ana ka msla bhi bna laity hain bchon ki nafsiyaat ko ni smjhty as zindagi to unko guzarni hai further gr wo hi khush na hongy to faida?....but yup bchon ko bhi chahye k parents ko apny views smjhain unko aitmaad mai lain or ye yaqeen dilain k unki respect her taur qaim rahay gi.is wqt unko unka sath chahye.jb thori unki thori apni mnva k kaam ho jae to aisi nobat ni aati.izzat to ab bhi khrab hui nan parents ki is sy acha un py chor daity is baat k sath k phir khush ho ya pchtao blame un py ni ae ga.may be mairi soch galet ho.further will comment jb baqi members bhi bolain gy to.....waisy gr tum tenon ki stories btaty to rae dainy mai ziada asaani hoti ki ghalti py kon hai.as nor children always rite neither parents always....it depends on each n every story
- Sh.Mohsin - 09-04-2010
I can not disclose anything more about them. I dont want to disclose their personal life.
According to you, kya insaan kabi itna majboor bhi ho sakta hai k is tarhaa ka decision lena par jaye. Me to sirf aap logon ki zubaan se wo different scenarios sun'na chahta hun jin me insaan aise decisions le sakta hai then I will co-relate your remarks with their lives.
- WARDAH - 09-04-2010
pta ni shayad ho jata ho tbhi aisa faisla laita ho as its not an easy decision but jb kuch smjh hi na ae to khudkushian krny sy behter to aar ya paar wala scene hi hai.ya to dil itna mazboot kr ly or parents ki baat maan lain.agerchy aik kaash to reh hi jata hai ager agla partner apki umeedon py pura na utry to......chlo tum agay btao then will share one thing
- Sarfaraz Khan - 09-04-2010
YES AESE STORIES BOHAT HAIN...but sun k afsos he hota hai..qalte kise k b ho..ab jab k shade ho he chuki hai to thanai dil se mamlai khaam kar de nachaye or reshtai qaim kar k dobarah aek hojana chaye..
- Marium Khan - 09-05-2010
scenario jo bhi ho but as per openion, parents ki choice ko preference dene chahiay bcoz un ki duaun k baghair hm kbi khuh nai ho skty.
- Safoora - 09-07-2010
parents shud b given the preference in all the cases.. but sumtimes they just get stubborn and reject our choice on very minute or unreasonable points..
still v shud convince them... rather than leaving them...
if i wud hav been in such a scenario i wud hav rather chosen to stay un married for my life instead of leaving my parents....( unpractical.. i know) abhi tu yahi smajh ara hay jab paray gi (ALLAH na karay ) tab hi pata chalay ga asal me
- raza 123 - 09-08-2010
Love parents -)
- WARDAH - 09-08-2010
sb hi theek keh rahay hain apni apni jgah.at the end to ji jis tan lagay wohi jaany.as its not easy to leave ur parents but.....
- yasir_live - 09-08-2010
Anaa khatam ho jai Tu maamlaat hal honay lagtay hain. Phir humari society k Parents k saath ek masla yeh hay k Woh bohat xiada Expectations Kaim kar letay hain Apni Auladon say sab say Irritating factor uss main Yeh hay k Woh Expect kartay hain k jesay hum soch rahay hain Humari Aulaad bilkul wesaay hi karti rahay..........This is Against Nature........Koi kisi or ko Apni zehniat k hisaab say nahi chala sakta hay chahay Woh uss ki Aulad ho Ya koi bhi ho..........
Safoora,
Aap ki baaton say Ek baat tu Confirm hui k Aap abhi na book ho aur naa hi Angaged ho ) Wesay Dear Admi tu kunwara bhi reh sakta hay As West main bohat saray Admi still singles hain jab k unki shadian ho jani chaiyay thin kai kai saalon pehlay, Lakin Aurat k liay tu yeh zara mushkil hay Tu Tum Karlena shadi Dil mat choa karna Shabash.
Regards.
- Sh.Mohsin - 09-09-2010
My dear freinds, logon ki khamyaan nikalna to bohot asaan hota hai lekin jb khud pe parti hai to insan ko tb hi hakikat ka ptaa chalta hai.
According to 1 of them which are discussed in the topic k wo apne is action per bilkul b sharminda nhi hai or na hi use koi maayusi hai....
- Safoora - 09-10-2010
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Anaa khatam ho jai Tu maamlaat hal honay lagtay hain. Phir humari society k Parents k saath ek masla yeh hay k Woh bohat xiada Expectations Kaim kar letay hain Apni Auladon say sab say Irritating factor uss main Yeh hay k Woh Expect kartay hain k jesay hum soch rahay hain Humari Aulaad bilkul wesaay hi karti rahay..........This is Against Nature........Koi kisi or ko Apni zehniat k hisaab say nahi chala sakta hay chahay Woh uss ki Aulad ho Ya koi bhi ho..........
Safoora,
Aap ki baaton say Ek baat tu Confirm hui k Aap abhi na book ho aur naa hi Angaged ho ) Wesay Dear Admi tu kunwara bhi reh sakta hay As West main bohat saray Admi still singles hain jab k unki shadian ho jani chaiyay thin kai kai saalon pehlay, Lakin Aurat k liay tu yeh zara mushkil hay Tu Tum Karlena shadi Dil mat choa karna Shabash.
Regards.
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yaasir bhai me kisi building ka flat hun bhala jo booked hunge??
west ko chorain east me b aisay baray mard paray hain... yeh tu hum auratain hain jin pe zulum thopa jata hay [(]
- yasir_live - 09-10-2010
East main kunwara rehnay say Log Ajeeb Ajeeb kisam k Shak kartay hain ) Nahi dear kesa zulm thopa jaa raha hay ? Dear Agar Aurat per yeh zulm thopa jaa raha hay Tu Doosray End per Mard hi tu hay Konsa Woh Akelay apnay aap say Shadi kar rahi hay Hehehehehe.
Lakin chalain mari dua hay k Aap ko koi Acha sa Husband milay, Gol-Matol sa, Ghuploo-Daploo type ka, Shareef sa ho, Khoob side ki maang ho, Ankhon main Surmaa, choti C moonchay, Pent Seenay tak charrai ho, Sharafat main Sir her waqt neechay ho...........Abb tu khush ho jain itni achi Wish ki hay aap k liay.
Regards.
- WARDAH - 09-10-2010
mohsin...yup mai bhi yehi kehti hon k jis py guzrti hai wohi janta hai.or gr wo shrminda ni hai to yaqeenan bohat buri hony wali hogi us k sath jo us ny ye qadm uthaya tbhi ab shrminda bhi ni hai.or nikah kr k jaiz triqy sy apnana koi buri baat ni bjae dunya ya gher walon k dr sy bnda ulty sidhy kaam karay.