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Expectations: - Safoora - 11-06-2010
in our daily life we have people around us expecting a lot of different things from us.. so do we have a great deal of expectations from people surrounding us...
but everyone has its own perception.. sometimes we cant even wonder what we are being expected for!!
and sometimes we act beyond the expectations..
my questions are
-do u think we should communicate our expectations to the other person in some manner..instead of guessing he knows all??
( there are some understood expatations like being faithfull to each other in a relationship. m talking about the expectationss dat are less obvious)
-if we should not communicate our expectations then y do we dont hesitate in communicating our disappointment if such expecations is not fulfilled....
-what should we do if someone is acting opposite of wat v expected out of him? ( even wen u properly communicated wat u expect from him)
in an unbreakable relation ship (for e.g parent and child) if one of the person is not upto the expectations.. then shud the other person start expecting less out of the other peron? and upto wat extent?
looking forwrd for great replies from my great forum mates [D]
P.S Mazaak masti is also allowed [p] ( as i cannot abstain myself from it [p])
- Kasim - 11-06-2010
Thanks God
i found my jaan nasheeen on forum too
As Olampya is jaan nasheen of Anamz'
Sarfraz is of Yasir's
Naima is of Wardah's
and u are mine and mine only(lolz) jaan nasheen ki baat ho rahi hay yar (abh phir say bhai keh ker mode na karab kerna subah subah (expectation bhi koi cheez hoti hain lolz))
Ciapk ka bhi koi mil he jaye ga
@Topic
Expectation communicate kerni chaheyeah (Dil ka haal Allah k siwa koi nahi jaan sakta)
Ager 1-2 bar communicate ker k bhi aggla banda app ki expectations ko without any obvious reason fullfil nahi ker raha tu
app ous say apni expectations ko kam ker loo
jitna realistic ho saktay hoo jaooo
and ager tab bhi app ous person k sath chalnay main problem feel kertay hoo tu
goodbye forever keh doo
ya phir limits (apni and ous ki) phir say define ker k unhain follow karoo
(whatever suits u depends upon ur nature)
about unbreakable relationship u should always b realistic whatever the circumstances are (it will make u expect up to certain level only)
regards
- yasir_live - 11-06-2010
Tum kuch bhi keh lo Jaan-Nasheen.........ya kuch bhi.........Yeh larki tumhain phir bhi bhai keh kar hi bulai gi.......Main nay bhi ghuma-phira k bohat koshish ki k yeh bhai na bolay lakin yeh tuss say muss nahi hui......Mujhay tu lagta hay in ki Ammi nay kasam charai hui hay k Dekh safoora zamana kharab hay her larkay ko BHAI kehna )
Safoora kisi din web-cam per ana......tumsay Haath jorr kar kahunga k Bhai na bolo.....Ek last Try karnay do mujhay......phir bhi result nahi aya tu main tumsay expectations khatam kardunga Lollzzzzzzz and will say you goodbye 4 ever as per kasim's instructions.
Regards.
- ciapk - 11-06-2010
Main apni kursi kisi ko nai day raha filhal -)
@ Topic
We should never have good expectations from any human being as jb expectations meet nahin hotin tu buhat takleef hoti hay. Sb k liay yehe socho k yay takleef zror day ga, So, jb expect krna he nahi hay tu communicate krnay ka swal he paida nahin hota.
- Safoora - 11-06-2010
@ kasim bhai P me itna waqt chup rahi.. phir mujhe ehsaas hua k apki seriousness phelanay me kuch madad ki jaye... very nice replies..
@ ciapk bhai... nice thinking but still i beleive expectation are inevitable
@ yasir bhai.. well m ignoring u filhal PP
- Sarfaraz Khan - 11-08-2010
expectations )..yes a good hope..
- cute-doll - 11-08-2010
Kisi se kisi achai ke expectation ki umeed nai rakhni chahiey . Aap khod achay hain is ka matlab ye nai ke doosre bhi aap se acha behave kare.
- yasir_live - 11-08-2010
Cute-Doll.
Zindagi main teen cheezon say kabhi bhi expectation mat rakhna......Aag...Pani...or........Bijli.
Just an advice.
Regards.
- raza 123 - 11-08-2010
Expectaion Kills ...
- Humaira - 11-08-2010
Expectations... mera khayal hai k yeh aik natural process hai .hum na chahte huway bhi logon se umeedain laga laite hain.Laiken ager app sochain to yeh aik achi baat bhi hai k her umeed app ki puri na ho....ager her umeed app ki puri hona shru ho gai to app logon k behaviour pehchan nahi sako gay k kon humare liye acha yah bura sochta hai.......Mera to yehi khayal hai
- yasir_live - 11-08-2010
Aap k khayalat perh kar mujhay khayal aya k aap k khyalat ki kya baat hay.
Regards.