09-14-2010, 02:22 PM
well in my opinion Parents' love is more powerful than any bf or gf's love....
Allah ne hume Quran me hukam diaa hai parents ki baat maanney ka... and sirf SHARIAT aisi chez hai jis ki khilaaf warzi wali koi baat hum parents ki nahi maney... lekin baqi tamam maamlaat me unki baat per sar tasleem-e-kham karnaa humara farz hai.... chahey wh baat hume napasand he kiun naa ho.... and in maamlat me SHADI bhi shamil hai....
so dear friends... agar ap ki GF ya BF bicher jaey, dur ho jaey to koi baat nhi..... per agr parents ko naraaz kar diaa naa to is dunia me bhi or akhrat me bhi kbhi khushiaa nhi naseeb hongi.....
so aap logo ko sochnaa chaiey k hum WEstern CulTUre ko apnaatey apnaatey kahi apni moral values se to nhi hat rhey....
pasand ki shadi islam me beshak jaiz hai... but agar parents raazi nhi hongey unkaa dil dukhey ga... to ap khud btao k kahaa tk chain se rho ge... Allah to sirf yeh dekhey ga na k iss ne apne maa baap ka dil dukkhayaa.....
plz ghor karein sub.... and jin k BF or GF hein... unko chahiey k parents ko confidence me lein... unko apni pasand btaey.... agr wh razi ho jaey to very good..... orrr agr razi naa ho to sabr karna chahiey... BESHAK ALLAH SABR KARNEY WALO K SATH HAI...
Allah ne hume Quran me hukam diaa hai parents ki baat maanney ka... and sirf SHARIAT aisi chez hai jis ki khilaaf warzi wali koi baat hum parents ki nahi maney... lekin baqi tamam maamlaat me unki baat per sar tasleem-e-kham karnaa humara farz hai.... chahey wh baat hume napasand he kiun naa ho.... and in maamlat me SHADI bhi shamil hai....
so dear friends... agar ap ki GF ya BF bicher jaey, dur ho jaey to koi baat nhi..... per agr parents ko naraaz kar diaa naa to is dunia me bhi or akhrat me bhi kbhi khushiaa nhi naseeb hongi.....
so aap logo ko sochnaa chaiey k hum WEstern CulTUre ko apnaatey apnaatey kahi apni moral values se to nhi hat rhey....
pasand ki shadi islam me beshak jaiz hai... but agar parents raazi nhi hongey unkaa dil dukhey ga... to ap khud btao k kahaa tk chain se rho ge... Allah to sirf yeh dekhey ga na k iss ne apne maa baap ka dil dukkhayaa.....
plz ghor karein sub.... and jin k BF or GF hein... unko chahiey k parents ko confidence me lein... unko apni pasand btaey.... agr wh razi ho jaey to very good..... orrr agr razi naa ho to sabr karna chahiey... BESHAK ALLAH SABR KARNEY WALO K SATH HAI...
