10-23-2004, 05:21 PM
Hi khan
Well as u rightly said """in the beginning u didnât wish to write an essay of what I thought of u as a person and ur mind, ur perception and how u react to things and ur temperament. But just the aggression made u write so much again
""oh God! i didnt want to write that much.....couldnt stop myself. """
Actually i personally am not that straight forward. The reason i wrote this all on u was not that u criticized me. I always am willing to accept criticism coz that helps in improving me. Itâs the way u say. The fact that a lot of sr members are on ur side doesnât make u eligible of doing and saying what ever u like in what eva tone. My dear i am also related to this profession for so long now and one of the biggest traits of this profession is not to loose temperament. If u say that i lost my temper, i lost it purposely coz i felt that u are doing it not with me but a lot of other people as u ur self said. I am member of this forum since long and during the past i have always tried to learn things through this. and have never used a word as
" i do not give a * * * * of what u think of me"""""
I DO NOT PERSONNALY FEEL THAT ALL OTHER SR. MEMBERS WHOM U CLAIM TO BE on ur side WOULD LIKE THIS happening on this forum. On the other hand i affirm that i didnât hit ur personality. Itâs the perception and the approach u carry. Plus as u belong to the ACCA family (and i said that i do also) u took it as a retaliation.
Professionally speaking, saying CRAP straight away to someone who has not been ever treated in this way seems to be unethical.
And yes i know that â"He who hurts his brothers/friends through is words is not among Muslims"
so time for u to review this in light as u said that u have an aggressive approach towards expressing views. Coz itâs not that at first place u hurt someone and afterwards considering that u will be checked by other members and posing to be Mr Humble, apologizing them. This humbleness doesnât make u humble all the way coz humble ppl are not IN A HABBIT of hurting A LOT OF PPL (as u ur self say).
My dear, u have rightly proved that u still are in a lot of anger coz u do not give a **** of what i have said to u but i didnât say that i do not give a **** to what u said to me...
If the word CRAP is allowed (i doubt though abt its frequent use) that doesnât make it a pleasant word any way
I apologize if u feel u r pissed off any way. If u are an ACCA member i would recommend u to read the RULE BOOK they provide in free...
And DT just corrected me and i replied to that. Now what assertions are u extracting from this communication of us and yeah once again i say that u do not know abt where i am living then y do u insist abt pakistan, further more i didnât copy pasted ur words. Its just that
One, u should be too clear and accountable of whateva u say
Second, if u say some thing which u consider will becum a joke in future u should bear it...
I just picked few lines to tell u that U ARE NOT ALWAYS Scattering ROSES my friend..
Any way being one of the old members I initiate the peace and convey that do not consider it as mere retaliation. All other senior members would agree that loosing temper, being too much straight forward and using evocative abusive language is unethical..
Finally to ur statement ââthat my friend thats the way i am, very straight forward meanwhile trying not to hurt others, if you donât like it..........tough luck!!!ââââ
I affirm u that whenever I will find in these forums that u hurt someone I would definitely convey this to u at least. Coz it not ethical that first hurt someone and then after apologizing, consider that u are clear and humble then.
Meanwhile after I feel that we from now onwards are on a moderate level lets consider a joke. Donât feel bad its just a jokeâ¦â¦
For eg. One of ur client in ur UK, Mr Robbison is not pleased with ur assurance service and he said some thing to u now how will u retaliate expectedly///
Dear Robbinson you think i m some kind of a freak......you may be right....... i dont give a **** what you think of me. What u said abt this is CRAP to me.
if you were HURT by the above term then i must apologize, but your views still remains crap for ME. Yes i said crap earlier when a client was filling up pages with his crap to disrespect an accounting professional, i tried to make him understand using rational but he seemed NUMB to me and he only reacted when i started saying crap. oh God! i didnt want to say that much.....couldnt stop myself. let me just say a few lines and then good bye to you my firend Rob thats the way i am, very straight forward meanwhile trying not to hurt others, if you dont like it..........tough luck!!!
I wonder how Mr Rob would retaliateâ¦
I once again say that from now onwards what eve u say to me relating this I would not reply in this regard. I, considering the Holy Month of Ramzan offer my sincere apologies if u are hurt.
Allah Hafiz
Well as u rightly said """in the beginning u didnât wish to write an essay of what I thought of u as a person and ur mind, ur perception and how u react to things and ur temperament. But just the aggression made u write so much again
""oh God! i didnt want to write that much.....couldnt stop myself. """
Actually i personally am not that straight forward. The reason i wrote this all on u was not that u criticized me. I always am willing to accept criticism coz that helps in improving me. Itâs the way u say. The fact that a lot of sr members are on ur side doesnât make u eligible of doing and saying what ever u like in what eva tone. My dear i am also related to this profession for so long now and one of the biggest traits of this profession is not to loose temperament. If u say that i lost my temper, i lost it purposely coz i felt that u are doing it not with me but a lot of other people as u ur self said. I am member of this forum since long and during the past i have always tried to learn things through this. and have never used a word as
" i do not give a * * * * of what u think of me"""""
I DO NOT PERSONNALY FEEL THAT ALL OTHER SR. MEMBERS WHOM U CLAIM TO BE on ur side WOULD LIKE THIS happening on this forum. On the other hand i affirm that i didnât hit ur personality. Itâs the perception and the approach u carry. Plus as u belong to the ACCA family (and i said that i do also) u took it as a retaliation.
Professionally speaking, saying CRAP straight away to someone who has not been ever treated in this way seems to be unethical.
And yes i know that â"He who hurts his brothers/friends through is words is not among Muslims"
so time for u to review this in light as u said that u have an aggressive approach towards expressing views. Coz itâs not that at first place u hurt someone and afterwards considering that u will be checked by other members and posing to be Mr Humble, apologizing them. This humbleness doesnât make u humble all the way coz humble ppl are not IN A HABBIT of hurting A LOT OF PPL (as u ur self say).
My dear, u have rightly proved that u still are in a lot of anger coz u do not give a **** of what i have said to u but i didnât say that i do not give a **** to what u said to me...
If the word CRAP is allowed (i doubt though abt its frequent use) that doesnât make it a pleasant word any way
I apologize if u feel u r pissed off any way. If u are an ACCA member i would recommend u to read the RULE BOOK they provide in free...
And DT just corrected me and i replied to that. Now what assertions are u extracting from this communication of us and yeah once again i say that u do not know abt where i am living then y do u insist abt pakistan, further more i didnât copy pasted ur words. Its just that
One, u should be too clear and accountable of whateva u say
Second, if u say some thing which u consider will becum a joke in future u should bear it...
I just picked few lines to tell u that U ARE NOT ALWAYS Scattering ROSES my friend..
Any way being one of the old members I initiate the peace and convey that do not consider it as mere retaliation. All other senior members would agree that loosing temper, being too much straight forward and using evocative abusive language is unethical..
Finally to ur statement ââthat my friend thats the way i am, very straight forward meanwhile trying not to hurt others, if you donât like it..........tough luck!!!ââââ
I affirm u that whenever I will find in these forums that u hurt someone I would definitely convey this to u at least. Coz it not ethical that first hurt someone and then after apologizing, consider that u are clear and humble then.
Meanwhile after I feel that we from now onwards are on a moderate level lets consider a joke. Donât feel bad its just a jokeâ¦â¦
For eg. One of ur client in ur UK, Mr Robbison is not pleased with ur assurance service and he said some thing to u now how will u retaliate expectedly///
Dear Robbinson you think i m some kind of a freak......you may be right....... i dont give a **** what you think of me. What u said abt this is CRAP to me.
if you were HURT by the above term then i must apologize, but your views still remains crap for ME. Yes i said crap earlier when a client was filling up pages with his crap to disrespect an accounting professional, i tried to make him understand using rational but he seemed NUMB to me and he only reacted when i started saying crap. oh God! i didnt want to say that much.....couldnt stop myself. let me just say a few lines and then good bye to you my firend Rob thats the way i am, very straight forward meanwhile trying not to hurt others, if you dont like it..........tough luck!!!
I wonder how Mr Rob would retaliateâ¦
I once again say that from now onwards what eve u say to me relating this I would not reply in this regard. I, considering the Holy Month of Ramzan offer my sincere apologies if u are hurt.
Allah Hafiz