Well everyone is discussing this topic preety emotionally here so I thought let me post my own thoughts on this......[p]
To marry during articles.....I dont know,BUT I do know that I wont be doing this!![D]
So here is an idea for real excited fellows
How about mere engagement OR nikah & leave marriage for GOOD time to come!! In this way u would be saved from that responsibility thingy & well,would have a companion to share ur thoughts & stuff!!
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<br />Anam Naaz to sharmaa k kuch likh hi nahi rahi hay. Where R u ??? Aiyay Anam Apnay Noor say is topic ko Purnoor kar dijiyay.
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Yaha meri shadi ki batay thori na chal rahi hain jo mai sharmaou. I don't know what to say about this topic, but I'll agree with Kamran bhai. And what I can say is, don't marry during articleship or whatever training you're getting. Just rather be focussed on your studies or work than discussing this "useless topic" =>(in my point of view don't want any arguement here).
Lakin still Pakistan mai larkiou ko ziada parhne or training , articleship wagayra ki permission nahe milti hai. Pehle larkiou ki matric k bad hi shadi kardi jati thi uskay bad inter tak ijazat milnay lagi ab jakr graduation tak ki premission milnay lagi hai larkiou ko..... Lets see now what happens... Hope for the best...
Moral of the topic " Don't marry during studies, articleship, training "
girls shadi kar k is liay pagal ho jaye gi k wo studies, articles and ghar nai aik sath chala sakti . after marriage, bhot sari responsibilities hoti hain jo agar pori na ki jaye to mother in law k real face samney aata hai . waisey bi during articles late sitting karni parti hai jis ki permission kuch lucky logo ko milti hai after marriage.
studies k liay time bhot kam hi milta hai . tell me , after marriage, aik larki articles ki waja s late sitting kr rai hai aur usay coaching lny bi jna hai kun usay permission d ga. is time koi husband driver nai bnta . is liay no doubt parents hamesha achey hoty hn wo hr situation m hamra sath dety hain .
Main aik din kia gayeb hui itni saray comments!!! nice posts from all.In my view nothing is difficult or impossible.jin ko lagan ho kuch krny ki shadi matter nahi krti unko.woh sub he kaam nimta laitay hain shadi k sath parhai bhi.mairy ird gird bohat say log hain specially girls jinhon nay shadi k baad bhi pura kiya hai.its just n just depend on ur passion to do ).main ziada nahi bol skti office ka kaam bohat hai.or maira apna dimag bhi ds jgah atka rehta hai bulkay ajkl aik jgah hi to itna chl nahin raha tbhi sub ki posts prh he rahi hon ajkl.kbhi hum bhi aadmi hotay thay kam k (
REGARDS
WARDAH
I appriciate Kasim, who has started the wonderful topic which always remains in consideration of every student during the articles.
1st reply of Cute Doll is an innocent answer. Dekho bibi cute doll agar ideal hamsafar during articles hi mil jaye to apni bewaqufi se us ko kho mat dena. Cute doll agar husbend sath nibhane wala ho to responsibilities share ho jati hain.
Then Yasir_live tried to make laugh of cute doll. Yar zindagi me kabi kisi innocense ka mazaq ni urana warna zindagi k lye mazak ban jao ge.
Regarding the comments of Miss very very sensible, marriage is a business for girls. Girls can have driver can have a free teacher and nothing else. Moreover, miss sensible agar husbend/boy freind carrying and loving ho to age factor kabi b count ni hota.
Miss Wardah is also following miss sensible.
Mujahid bhai ap b to office time me he use kr rahe ho net personal mails k lye. Kisi ko kuch kehne se pehle khud ki burayan door karni chahyen.
Spectrum has said well that if there are no financial crisis then marriage can be within articles. Only this factor can be considered for marrying within articles or not.
I agree with Anam that in our society girls are not so much educated but if girls are willing to study more and more then I will communicate this to all husbends that please appreciate you wives for studying more. Anam ki tarha kisi b khush mizaaj larki kois topic pe bat kr k sharam aa jaye gi.
Members just try to add positive comments. Is topic ko hum mazak me daal kr b kisi k problem ka solution de sakte hain. Ye to har student ka problem hai.
Dear Sh.Mohsin, Main nay kisi ka mazzak nahi uraya. Main sirf utna hi mazak kerta hun jitna aglay ko berdasht ho jai, Aur is cheeze ka mujhay khoob shaoor hay, Anywayz i will definitely take care next time.
Acha ek hassi ki baat hay ! Saraay larkon k reply main tumhain koi na koi NUKS nazar araha hay agar nahi bhi hay to...........Bus kerdo yaar yahaan sab samajhdar hain, itni mushkil perhaiyan kernay walo ko yeh sab to Aankh band ker k bhi samajh ajata hay.
@ mohsin i never say dat marriage is business foe gurls,dude business is something else which doesnt require marriage(hope u got dat)
and yes in our society gurls might find difficulty in continuing her studies after marriage, but nothing is impossible,"WHEN THERE IS A WILL, THERE IS A WAY"
i have seen so many womens completed her studies after marriage even my mother got her studies completed after marriage but still it requires a coperative husband and educated susral who can understand u like ur own parents..
hence decision should vary from case to case basis and person's own prejudices must b taklen into account.... no one can decide one thing for awl.... this is that decision which cant b generalised ... so my decision is to marry soon after mod E exams, after dat half articles will b remaining.... again its appropriate in my case and may b in some other cases too... i dun like bad faces of cut_doll wen she'll b reading my answer) lolz
i see gurlz got so emotional after reading my posts dats y i was outta dat forum since days...hope nobody will misunderstood my views
@Mohsin. . .I didn't follow sensible Infact i said very seriously anybody can do after marriage too if he/she have interest or u say passion to do.marriages doesnt matter.Waisy perhny ki to koi umer nahi hoti sari umer pdi hai haan but shadi ki aik umer hi hoti hai to woh usi time period mai ker hi laini chaheye infact ger hubby/wife acha mil jae to kia he baat hai ger wo understanding hui/hua to aap kuch bhi achive ker sktay hain jo aap chahain.
regards,
WARDAH
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<br />yeah, shadi ki umer hoti ha and syudies tou sari umer kar saktay hain ,no age limits as such)
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Wah bhi, ap to bare doghali baatain karte hain,[p]
pehlay studies ko preference de thee aur ab keh rahee hain k shadi ki koi limit nahi hoti[8D]
Surprising [D]
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<br />Main aik din kia gayeb hui itni saray comments!!! nice posts from all.In my view nothing is difficult or impossible.jin ko lagan ho kuch krny ki shadi matter nahi krti unko.woh sub he kaam nimta laitay hain shadi k sath parhai bhi.mairy ird gird bohat say log hain specially girls jinhon nay shadi k baad bhi pura kiya hai.its just n just depend on ur passion to do ).main ziada nahi bol skti office ka kaam bohat hai.or maira apna dimag bhi ds jgah atka rehta hai bulkay ajkl aik jgah hi to itna chl nahin raha tbhi sub ki posts prh he rahi hon ajkl.<font size="2"><b>kbhi hum bhi aadmi hotay thay kam k </b> </font id="size2"> (
REGARDS
WARDAH