The real ruler at home

[Kasim]

Mumtaz Mufti once referred in his novel from a book named “THEY AND I” that it’s the woman who in real is the ruler at home as she always have full support of her children whenever the issue is between her and her husband. She decides which relatives are good enough to be in touch with by her children (and mostly its her own family not her husband’s family). She keeps children close enough to herself so that they may share every thing with her only and she intentionally raise her kids with fear of their father this fear never let the children come near to the father even after they get mature. And finally at end of life father is the person all alone at home mostly treated as useless even mindless person facing continues competitive situations made by his wife and “HER” children and always blamed for his mistakes.

[WARDAH]

not always. . . bchy sara din maa k sath jo rehty hain tbhi aisa hota hai.but not like ur end lines k father useless ho jata hai.uski ahmiat to kbhi khtm ni hoti.jahil aurtain krti hongi aisa wrna bhla hubby k bghair b wife khush reh skti hai?? not at all mairi mama to ni aisi.pehly hubby then kids.. . .

[ciapk]

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, in most of cases, observation of mumtaz mufti is correct. if we see around the families and relatives the situation is almost the same as depicted by him. However, exceptions are always there.

[Kasim]

no more comments by any one else?


seems like lerkiyaaan iss liyeah post nahi ker rahi kiyoun k mamtaz mufti sach keh raha hy
(it shows how cruel they are and how they plan their line of actions )

and lerkay iss liyeah post nahi ker rahay caz mumtaz mufti sach keh raha hay
(it shows how unwise they are and how much they ignore effects of their today decisions/actions on their tommorow)

come on yaar comment na
it will show ur line of action before and after being an old person

[WARDAH]

mujhy yaqeen hai k mai ldri or ciapk ldka hai. . .to tum apny alfaz wapis lo kasim.is py koi kia boly jb tk khud py ni beetay gi to.tum plz after 60 pochna ye swal then vl tell u

[Kasim]

You planning to be reachable by me after the age of 60 too?
lol

[WARDAH]

hahahahhahaha forum py bta don gi tumko fikr na kro )

[bizmen]

Mumtaz Mufti ki baat sahi ho ya ghalat but I don't agree keh khawateen aisa intentionally karti hain. I don't think that any lady would intentionally raise her children in fear of father so that the children are closer to her and farther from their father, Result chahe wohi ho jo kasim ne farmaya and ciapk ne agree kia.

[WARDAH]

yup agreed wid biz

[ciapk]

Shaoori toor pay nahin krtin na plan kr k krti hain, yay unki nature main by default moojod hota hay or wo ahista ahista khudi proceed hota rehta hay

[bizmen]

waise mera khayal hai keh bache hone kay baad, asal ruler to Bacha hee hota hai.

[WARDAH]

ciapk. . .iska jawab mai gher ja k don gi abhi mai bz hon

[crazyboy]

Intresting post[D]

[ciapk]

Tu ghr nai pohnchin kia? -)

[WARDAH]

pohnch gai thi dear phir barish ho gai tofani barish phir aik phase ur gya phir mai aiki novel bhi prhny mai msroof ho gai wo itna acha tha k maira uthny ka g hi ni kiya k ja k laptop kholon or is ghmbeer topic py apni rae don. . .actually hota ye hai k gher py twazun rkhny k liey kbhi aik dant'ta hai to duja pyar sy smjhata hai bchon ko or waisy bhi aba g ka aik khas hold hota hai pury ghr py bchon ki ama py bhi or ma to ma hi hoti hai na sara din bchon ko smbhalti hai unko groom krti hai to bchy zizda tr sharing phir ama sy hi krty hain or tb to aba bhi pyar k sath apny raub rkhny py ander sy satisfy or fkhr mehsos krta hai.bs yonhi zindagi ki gaari chlti rehti hai.or amuman opr wala nqsha jb bnta hai jb sari umr aba g ny ama ko bohat raub mai rkha ho k ama or bchy dono aba ki dehsht mai atay hon jb bry ho jaty hain to ama ko sahara mil jata hai k ab koi hai jo aba ki mar sy bchae ga.wo ziada sdqy wari ho jati hai bchon py or jo aba jawani mai inko ghas ni dalta tha to ab ult wo inko ghas ni dalty as tit for tat. . . wrna humary jaisy ghron mai to jo qdr o manzilzt aba g ki jwani mai hoti hai woi buzurgwar ho k bhi ki jati hai kion k wo jawani mai bhi gher walon ko muhabat or shfqat daity hain to burhapy mai unko bhi woi sukh milta hai.