08-26-2005, 02:38 AM
Career and marriage are just to facets of life, both important in their places. I guess career should only take precedence over marriage until one is stepping into it, once you have a job that pays your bills one should go on to tie the knot. As Muslims it is our belief that 'RIZK' is pre ordained and delaying marriage just does not add to the equation !
Unfortunately people these days have a whole package in mind which includes a car and a house and a midlevel career before they go on to be married. That just leaves you high and dry, loosing the early years of youth. Marriage is a beautiful thing and tying it to a whole lot of material units (money, car, house etc.) is just being stupid.
I know a lot of people may not agree, but that's how I see it !
Unfortunately people these days have a whole package in mind which includes a car and a house and a midlevel career before they go on to be married. That just leaves you high and dry, loosing the early years of youth. Marriage is a beautiful thing and tying it to a whole lot of material units (money, car, house etc.) is just being stupid.
I know a lot of people may not agree, but that's how I see it !
