08-31-2005, 06:47 AM
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<br />hmmm.... both marriage n career r equally important ,
BUT >>>>>> Pracs As Muslims it is our belief that 'RIZK' is pre ordained and delaying marriage just does not add to the equation !
well for a guy (cos hes the bread earner) marriage is only advaicable when he is or thinks is able to support a family (D) n for a gal its kind of different it depends on many factors of which one is freedom of choice(i.e. willingness to get married to a or any person)
so i think tht SHE might hv reason for wht eva she belives i.e as u state tht career is more imp than marriage , personally i agree with her but again every one has different reason behind there thinking D.
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Well, its a free world, and every individual has a right to make decision of his/her career. Just my personal opinion. I would say that though women are not ordained to be ''bread winners'' marriage should be a first choice just as it should be for men. I think women should marry once they are through their academic or profesional studies, the option of continuing a career should not be a problem after marriage. This does raise other questions of family and kids but life is all about give and take and setting one's priorities.
<br />hmmm.... both marriage n career r equally important ,
BUT >>>>>> Pracs As Muslims it is our belief that 'RIZK' is pre ordained and delaying marriage just does not add to the equation !
well for a guy (cos hes the bread earner) marriage is only advaicable when he is or thinks is able to support a family (D) n for a gal its kind of different it depends on many factors of which one is freedom of choice(i.e. willingness to get married to a or any person)
so i think tht SHE might hv reason for wht eva she belives i.e as u state tht career is more imp than marriage , personally i agree with her but again every one has different reason behind there thinking D.
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Well, its a free world, and every individual has a right to make decision of his/her career. Just my personal opinion. I would say that though women are not ordained to be ''bread winners'' marriage should be a first choice just as it should be for men. I think women should marry once they are through their academic or profesional studies, the option of continuing a career should not be a problem after marriage. This does raise other questions of family and kids but life is all about give and take and setting one's priorities.
