07-18-2007, 06:06 PM
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<br />Dears,
Once I read the phliosphy of some unknown SAINT; he never accepted any one as his follower (MUREED) without asking him a question. Have you ever been in love? Whenever the reply was in No; the person was not taken into BAIT. The philosphy behind was, the saint was of the view that whoever does not have an experience of love and specially of its failure in this materialistic world, cannot understand the basic requirements of being in REAL LOVE with God.
The deprived feelings, broken hearts, tears in eyes, soft emotions and distrust on materialistic attractions is the come out of real love, if any one had ever been in its exposure. These things help out a person to get into the love of ultimate lover (God).
Of course some of the Saints did not like it at all but even they had been in love in some part of their lives. Hazrat Ali Hajveri (known as Daataa Ganj Bakhsh) Rehmutullah Aleh has written in his book "KASHF-UL-MAHJOOB" that he had been in love with some beautiful girl for one year in his life time and he declared this one year's period as the worst period of his life becoz such materialistic love abstained him to some extent from YAAD-E-ELLAHI.
In my view the real love is the love with ALLAH.
However, what the love really means can be best judged by a person who was in pure love at this world and has faced the failure.
It is my feeling, otherwise inclination to love with ALLAH is created in hearts only and only if blessed by Allah.
May Allah bless us all with his love, and eliminate the preference of love of materialistic attractions over his love, from our hearts.
Best regards,
Kamran.
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I agree the Love with your Creator is the actual or in other words real love. But sometimes i dont understand that Is the Love with a person in world, other than your parents, bros and sisters etc, sin? If it is then why this emotion is created in our heart at first place? I mean its something so natural that sometimes you really feel extreme attraction towards a person. I will clarify here that lust is not love. There is a huge difference between both words and feelings behind them. The love for time passing is also ofcourse wrong.
Secondly what about the love between husband and wife? That is also a wordly love.
If i talk about my case, I always tried to offer my duties towards Allah. But side by side i had the love for that person( which is no more now) too.
<br />Dears,
Once I read the phliosphy of some unknown SAINT; he never accepted any one as his follower (MUREED) without asking him a question. Have you ever been in love? Whenever the reply was in No; the person was not taken into BAIT. The philosphy behind was, the saint was of the view that whoever does not have an experience of love and specially of its failure in this materialistic world, cannot understand the basic requirements of being in REAL LOVE with God.
The deprived feelings, broken hearts, tears in eyes, soft emotions and distrust on materialistic attractions is the come out of real love, if any one had ever been in its exposure. These things help out a person to get into the love of ultimate lover (God).
Of course some of the Saints did not like it at all but even they had been in love in some part of their lives. Hazrat Ali Hajveri (known as Daataa Ganj Bakhsh) Rehmutullah Aleh has written in his book "KASHF-UL-MAHJOOB" that he had been in love with some beautiful girl for one year in his life time and he declared this one year's period as the worst period of his life becoz such materialistic love abstained him to some extent from YAAD-E-ELLAHI.
In my view the real love is the love with ALLAH.
However, what the love really means can be best judged by a person who was in pure love at this world and has faced the failure.
It is my feeling, otherwise inclination to love with ALLAH is created in hearts only and only if blessed by Allah.
May Allah bless us all with his love, and eliminate the preference of love of materialistic attractions over his love, from our hearts.
Best regards,
Kamran.
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I agree the Love with your Creator is the actual or in other words real love. But sometimes i dont understand that Is the Love with a person in world, other than your parents, bros and sisters etc, sin? If it is then why this emotion is created in our heart at first place? I mean its something so natural that sometimes you really feel extreme attraction towards a person. I will clarify here that lust is not love. There is a huge difference between both words and feelings behind them. The love for time passing is also ofcourse wrong.
Secondly what about the love between husband and wife? That is also a wordly love.
If i talk about my case, I always tried to offer my duties towards Allah. But side by side i had the love for that person( which is no more now) too.
