07-24-2007, 04:15 PM
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<br />Miss cool loiness
i think sajid is kiding otherwise i am not in an opinion that woman is incomplete. Both of man and woman are two wheels of a vehicle and vehicle is life you life cant be run in the absence of any of them. And i am also of the opinion that man is complete when he gets marry. But your opinion was that after kids.
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Ok let it take in this way. A male and a female are created to carry out different jobs, with different names, in this world. Male is first son, brother, and then he becomes husband, father, grand father and then he dies. Same goes for a woman. She is suppposed to be a daughter, sister then wife, mother, grand mother and great grand mother (if life allows). So i think if a man or a woman goes thru all these stages or phases, he/she definitely completes the cycle of life.
I say that woman and man are definitely incomplete until they procreate the childern. I fully agree that The most important stage in ones life is when he/she becomes someone's life partner and their positions are changed to husband and wife in few minutes. We say it a begining of new life. But think for a moment if we expel the fatherhood and motherhood from a male or female's life, undoubtedly it will create a big space in their lives. IF they do not get the kids, they can be never a father n mother, grand father n grand mother, they are totally missing out the most important role of their lives. Their life gets stagnant on one point. That is just husband and wife to eachother. Once you get marry you do not have any other wish except that your partner is loving and you become a father or a mother. So many boys remarry just for the sake of having kids, in case his wife is unable to concieve. And remarrying for this cause is permitted in Islam too.
I am wondering that You are boys/man and still denying the fact that fatherhood is not the completion of your personality. Without having a son or daughter you do not have any heir for your property. You do not have anyone who can remember you when you are no more. No one to keep your name alive in this world.
Islam has given a very high rank to a father and mother. Mother has got the Janat under her feet and father is the door of that janat. YOu cannot enter the janat until you open the door.
<br />Miss cool loiness
i think sajid is kiding otherwise i am not in an opinion that woman is incomplete. Both of man and woman are two wheels of a vehicle and vehicle is life you life cant be run in the absence of any of them. And i am also of the opinion that man is complete when he gets marry. But your opinion was that after kids.
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Ok let it take in this way. A male and a female are created to carry out different jobs, with different names, in this world. Male is first son, brother, and then he becomes husband, father, grand father and then he dies. Same goes for a woman. She is suppposed to be a daughter, sister then wife, mother, grand mother and great grand mother (if life allows). So i think if a man or a woman goes thru all these stages or phases, he/she definitely completes the cycle of life.
I say that woman and man are definitely incomplete until they procreate the childern. I fully agree that The most important stage in ones life is when he/she becomes someone's life partner and their positions are changed to husband and wife in few minutes. We say it a begining of new life. But think for a moment if we expel the fatherhood and motherhood from a male or female's life, undoubtedly it will create a big space in their lives. IF they do not get the kids, they can be never a father n mother, grand father n grand mother, they are totally missing out the most important role of their lives. Their life gets stagnant on one point. That is just husband and wife to eachother. Once you get marry you do not have any other wish except that your partner is loving and you become a father or a mother. So many boys remarry just for the sake of having kids, in case his wife is unable to concieve. And remarrying for this cause is permitted in Islam too.
I am wondering that You are boys/man and still denying the fact that fatherhood is not the completion of your personality. Without having a son or daughter you do not have any heir for your property. You do not have anyone who can remember you when you are no more. No one to keep your name alive in this world.
Islam has given a very high rank to a father and mother. Mother has got the Janat under her feet and father is the door of that janat. YOu cannot enter the janat until you open the door.
