04-02-2009, 01:19 AM
Dears,
I at the outset said I don't admire quoting such personal links.
However, since this is available on net therefore, this is not that personal. If this profile was not made by him, why he is complaining of theft of IDs. I wonder.
Further, the issue was not of matrimonial website at all. Issue was of his age, status (ACCA) etc in that tenure when he claimed on a public forum that he is an ACCA member. This must have to be seen in 2006 and not in current date.
If upon inquiry ACCA will confirm that he was ACCA before the date of his post (2006) I will be the first to clarify this on the forum. Certainly this would be an inquiry of his status in 2006 and not an allegation. Allegation will come if things will be proved to the contrary.
Apart from what should be done and what not, don't you see he is diverting the attention by offering to click on the weblinks that don't get opened? When I clarified that this could be reached through google, as Rabia explained, he again diverted by saying Rabia did not mention ACCA. I mean why you don't see such controvercies? If he is registered there he should condemn the effort of exposing his personal profile. We all will be with him. But when he is negating and diverting the situation, it makes it suspcious and an issue to be discussed.
I understand that being on some matrimonial site is a valid act and has nothing wrong in it. I also don't admire quoting personal info on the forums. However, I will not let any one to divert the things and decieve the others.
One must understand that IDs he is referring are issued by the site in a sequence and no one can break the system to go back in 2007 or 2008 to make his profile. He was not even known to me in 2007. This is also important. Rabia can confirm whether or not he was in her knowledge or not during that tenure. How stupid is it to say that some one from this forum has done this. I mean some one should react sensibly.
At the end, yes, I agree quoting some one's personal info is wrong. At the same time, using your words, I also say Rabia quoted only links. Further, this info was public when it is searchable through google. Still I don't encourage Rabia or any one to do this in future. You may be seeing that Rabia has offered her regrets.
Having said that, I must also say that the methodology being used by this man is not correct. I mean had there been mine profile on such website I would have never denied. What's wrong in it afterall? The wrong is to lie, divert and through cross allegations and even then singing songs of professionalism and ethics.
Regards,
KAMRAN.
edited for spelling mistakes...
I at the outset said I don't admire quoting such personal links.
However, since this is available on net therefore, this is not that personal. If this profile was not made by him, why he is complaining of theft of IDs. I wonder.
Further, the issue was not of matrimonial website at all. Issue was of his age, status (ACCA) etc in that tenure when he claimed on a public forum that he is an ACCA member. This must have to be seen in 2006 and not in current date.
If upon inquiry ACCA will confirm that he was ACCA before the date of his post (2006) I will be the first to clarify this on the forum. Certainly this would be an inquiry of his status in 2006 and not an allegation. Allegation will come if things will be proved to the contrary.
Apart from what should be done and what not, don't you see he is diverting the attention by offering to click on the weblinks that don't get opened? When I clarified that this could be reached through google, as Rabia explained, he again diverted by saying Rabia did not mention ACCA. I mean why you don't see such controvercies? If he is registered there he should condemn the effort of exposing his personal profile. We all will be with him. But when he is negating and diverting the situation, it makes it suspcious and an issue to be discussed.
I understand that being on some matrimonial site is a valid act and has nothing wrong in it. I also don't admire quoting personal info on the forums. However, I will not let any one to divert the things and decieve the others.
One must understand that IDs he is referring are issued by the site in a sequence and no one can break the system to go back in 2007 or 2008 to make his profile. He was not even known to me in 2007. This is also important. Rabia can confirm whether or not he was in her knowledge or not during that tenure. How stupid is it to say that some one from this forum has done this. I mean some one should react sensibly.
At the end, yes, I agree quoting some one's personal info is wrong. At the same time, using your words, I also say Rabia quoted only links. Further, this info was public when it is searchable through google. Still I don't encourage Rabia or any one to do this in future. You may be seeing that Rabia has offered her regrets.
Having said that, I must also say that the methodology being used by this man is not correct. I mean had there been mine profile on such website I would have never denied. What's wrong in it afterall? The wrong is to lie, divert and through cross allegations and even then singing songs of professionalism and ethics.
Regards,
KAMRAN.
edited for spelling mistakes...
