09-24-2009, 05:35 PM
Awais
You will never see any sensible person asking "if I could not do something or if I did not wish to do any specific thing then how/why some one else could have done so". Now if you say these are harsh words then who is at fault? Can you please take out time to think on it?
We don't know each others' life style, issues, preferences, problems, social ties, liking/disliking, attitude and aptitude. Then how can we compare others with ourselves. I have quoted an example at "General" regarding how busy we are and how swift we want to be?
As far as myself is concerned, unwillingly I mention, that I sleep a few hours and this is my habit for many years. I have unlimited internet access at my blackberry with activated GPRS and I can log in any time, even for few minutes, even during travelling, in plane, in car, and yes even in my bed room. Whether or not I am honoring the needs of my family and friends is totally another issue with which no body else, specially at this forum, has any linkage. So, my dear, please be sensible enough while making comparisons and raising needless personalized objections.
Some of our friends raise such idiotic objections and then complain why others have replied them and why Admin is not taking action.
I would request you to be decent in your discussions if you want to have decent replies. Regarding past, if you wish to discuss any of my comments/replies, I am always here to give you the reasoning and explanation of such comments/replies. I will publically tell the reasons and assure you for having solid basis for my comments. One sided complaints and grouses are unjustified.
As far as the man you are advocating is concerned, I have time and again said I have nothing to do with him. I outrightly ignored him at all threads. We are here to discuss purposeful issues and the objective is not to make every thread "paan ke dukaan". Regardless of his efforts to make the forum a "paan ke dukan" I always ignored him. I wished Admin should have taken note of his low standard language that he has been using with all members invariably. However, SOPs of the forum unfortunately don't call for an immediate action.
You have certainly not seen his initial post on this very thread which that lamer has deleted feeling it to be of low standard and vulger in nature. Rabia replied him critically which on my requested she deleted. She also edited the quote from another member's post. Mind it, the words Rabia has quoted in her recent post are of some one else. In fact members at large hated the way this man used to address every one.
"Chore ke daarhi main tinka" when I copied a joke received as forward sms and email messages, he felt it was about him. I explained clearly that it was not about him since I never wished to comment about a Jaahil.
Let me tell the members that the said joke is only indicative in its nature. It does not mean that any one was an animal. The girl who started this thread is quite dubious. Initially her post was not that clear and it appeared like a case of missing some one accidentally. Even we initially appreciated her effort but subsequently some thing critical has been unfolded. It is also a fact that no good muslim Pakistani girl can come on forums to find her boy friends (even LOVE if it is) without informing or taking into confidence the parents. Still we are not a judge to whatever any one likes to do. Therefore, regardless of whatever she posted and clarified and whatever we initially thought of her, any sane human can understand how some one can be searched, if he/She is really interested in searching some one. Mujahid and Rabia pointed out some critical aspects about her post that carried considerable logic. The referral of joke was about that girl's quest which was dubious and was well taken and understood by the members including Rabia, Mujahid, Astute and others. If some mentally upset man delibarately refers such joke to his-self and don't even understand the matter upon receiving explanation then who is at fault?
The person alleging others for editing the posts has deleted his controversial post to get the favor of people like you. I must request you to understand the issue and then post your comments. Posting for the sake of posting and without knowing the problem will be another example of what I don't want to mention keeping your fullest honour and regard.
The above explanation was not binding on me but has been posted to remove any genuine grouses with a positive intent. I hope it will be taken positively.
I again request you to reconsider using the word "fabulous" where you are using it as a routine.
Regards,
Kamran.
You will never see any sensible person asking "if I could not do something or if I did not wish to do any specific thing then how/why some one else could have done so". Now if you say these are harsh words then who is at fault? Can you please take out time to think on it?
We don't know each others' life style, issues, preferences, problems, social ties, liking/disliking, attitude and aptitude. Then how can we compare others with ourselves. I have quoted an example at "General" regarding how busy we are and how swift we want to be?
As far as myself is concerned, unwillingly I mention, that I sleep a few hours and this is my habit for many years. I have unlimited internet access at my blackberry with activated GPRS and I can log in any time, even for few minutes, even during travelling, in plane, in car, and yes even in my bed room. Whether or not I am honoring the needs of my family and friends is totally another issue with which no body else, specially at this forum, has any linkage. So, my dear, please be sensible enough while making comparisons and raising needless personalized objections.
Some of our friends raise such idiotic objections and then complain why others have replied them and why Admin is not taking action.
I would request you to be decent in your discussions if you want to have decent replies. Regarding past, if you wish to discuss any of my comments/replies, I am always here to give you the reasoning and explanation of such comments/replies. I will publically tell the reasons and assure you for having solid basis for my comments. One sided complaints and grouses are unjustified.
As far as the man you are advocating is concerned, I have time and again said I have nothing to do with him. I outrightly ignored him at all threads. We are here to discuss purposeful issues and the objective is not to make every thread "paan ke dukaan". Regardless of his efforts to make the forum a "paan ke dukan" I always ignored him. I wished Admin should have taken note of his low standard language that he has been using with all members invariably. However, SOPs of the forum unfortunately don't call for an immediate action.
You have certainly not seen his initial post on this very thread which that lamer has deleted feeling it to be of low standard and vulger in nature. Rabia replied him critically which on my requested she deleted. She also edited the quote from another member's post. Mind it, the words Rabia has quoted in her recent post are of some one else. In fact members at large hated the way this man used to address every one.
"Chore ke daarhi main tinka" when I copied a joke received as forward sms and email messages, he felt it was about him. I explained clearly that it was not about him since I never wished to comment about a Jaahil.
Let me tell the members that the said joke is only indicative in its nature. It does not mean that any one was an animal. The girl who started this thread is quite dubious. Initially her post was not that clear and it appeared like a case of missing some one accidentally. Even we initially appreciated her effort but subsequently some thing critical has been unfolded. It is also a fact that no good muslim Pakistani girl can come on forums to find her boy friends (even LOVE if it is) without informing or taking into confidence the parents. Still we are not a judge to whatever any one likes to do. Therefore, regardless of whatever she posted and clarified and whatever we initially thought of her, any sane human can understand how some one can be searched, if he/She is really interested in searching some one. Mujahid and Rabia pointed out some critical aspects about her post that carried considerable logic. The referral of joke was about that girl's quest which was dubious and was well taken and understood by the members including Rabia, Mujahid, Astute and others. If some mentally upset man delibarately refers such joke to his-self and don't even understand the matter upon receiving explanation then who is at fault?
The person alleging others for editing the posts has deleted his controversial post to get the favor of people like you. I must request you to understand the issue and then post your comments. Posting for the sake of posting and without knowing the problem will be another example of what I don't want to mention keeping your fullest honour and regard.
The above explanation was not binding on me but has been posted to remove any genuine grouses with a positive intent. I hope it will be taken positively.
I again request you to reconsider using the word "fabulous" where you are using it as a routine.
Regards,
Kamran.
