01-04-2010, 07:38 PM
Dear Kamran and Toronto boy
I respect your opinions and agree to what you guys have said, but opinions are circumstantial and can be right or wrong depending on circumstances.
Toronto boy I understand your point as it is irritating when some one use offensive language without any provocation. I will like to narrate an incident which took place few years back may be it will help in understanding these kind of behaviors.
I was on Hajj in 2005 and there was a guy in our group who was around 50 and very irritating. He had quarrels with almost every one and disliked me as I was very active in arrangements although I was not the organizer of the group. On the Hajj day our Mualim has arranged very few buses for transport so we have to make our way through a huge crowd to enter the bus and I managed to make it and get hold of one seat [)] that guy was not energetic enough so he was late and has to stand. As the bus was moving very slowly I stood up and offered my seat to that man and he declined by shouting at me and saying what do you think of your self, ZIYADA LEADER BANEY KI KOOSHISH MAAT KARO etc etc etc .. When we reached Arafat quiet a few members came to me and asked what was I trying to prove? they were also upset and thought that I was responsible for all the fuss. When I came back to Pakistan I narrated this event to my mentor with whom I have worked at the start of my career and this is what he said <b>â <u>Society is responsible for individuals act, the nature of that person was developed because of the treatment he got from society, so do not curse the person, curse the society for producing this kind of personality</u>â</b>
I am sorry to use this forum for narrating a personal incident but I think it will help in killing the controversy and we will move a head.
Regards
M.Rizwan
I respect your opinions and agree to what you guys have said, but opinions are circumstantial and can be right or wrong depending on circumstances.
Toronto boy I understand your point as it is irritating when some one use offensive language without any provocation. I will like to narrate an incident which took place few years back may be it will help in understanding these kind of behaviors.
I was on Hajj in 2005 and there was a guy in our group who was around 50 and very irritating. He had quarrels with almost every one and disliked me as I was very active in arrangements although I was not the organizer of the group. On the Hajj day our Mualim has arranged very few buses for transport so we have to make our way through a huge crowd to enter the bus and I managed to make it and get hold of one seat [)] that guy was not energetic enough so he was late and has to stand. As the bus was moving very slowly I stood up and offered my seat to that man and he declined by shouting at me and saying what do you think of your self, ZIYADA LEADER BANEY KI KOOSHISH MAAT KARO etc etc etc .. When we reached Arafat quiet a few members came to me and asked what was I trying to prove? they were also upset and thought that I was responsible for all the fuss. When I came back to Pakistan I narrated this event to my mentor with whom I have worked at the start of my career and this is what he said <b>â <u>Society is responsible for individuals act, the nature of that person was developed because of the treatment he got from society, so do not curse the person, curse the society for producing this kind of personality</u>â</b>
I am sorry to use this forum for narrating a personal incident but I think it will help in killing the controversy and we will move a head.
Regards
M.Rizwan
