01-18-2010, 11:24 PM
Hi Cute Doll,
Your issue looks more psychological than anything else. If you have problem with more than one senior that means you should take the back of your seat in the night and think what you are doing wrong. Sometimes, we do things which are offending to others and we never realize them. It might be anything, your words, attitude or just even jealousy. Analyze your behavior very carefully.
It seems to me that youâre an over sensitive girl and you are taking them on your nerves. Remember that world out there is very brutal and careless. There is no room for âCute Girlsâ. You just canât buy sympathies and you have to be taught. I also feel that you are an introvert personality.
As I told you earlier, when they say you canât do anything, just ask them to have a meeting. Donât meet them immediately. Set an appointment for next day and discuss that what are their expectations and how you can meet them. Donât be emotional in the meeting and be careful using words. Just do this twice and believe me you will feel the difference because now they know that if they would say something to you, they will have to have some conversation with you, which they would like to avoid in future.
As sensible advised you, pay attention to your studies and once you clear few exams you will be senior too. This is just a matter of time. One very important issue that you must take care of is your communication skills. Trust me that you can never pass the CA Exam unless you improve your English. You neither can understand the concepts of accounting and other business subjects without it, nor can demonstrate in the exam. Spare a few hours every day to overcome this shortcoming. Control your life and be positive and productive.
I have some Para-psychological cures for your seniors but I wonât advise at this stage. However, I would suggest you a book âHow to influence people and win friendsâ. Its translation in Urdu was done by Kamal A. Rizwi âMethay Bool Main Jadoo Hayâ. I read that book when I was in grade 10. That is a wonderful book and I would strong recommend you to go through that. I think the book is available at any book store (If they exist in Karachi anymore) and it is not expensive.
Keep me posted,
Regrads,
Your issue looks more psychological than anything else. If you have problem with more than one senior that means you should take the back of your seat in the night and think what you are doing wrong. Sometimes, we do things which are offending to others and we never realize them. It might be anything, your words, attitude or just even jealousy. Analyze your behavior very carefully.
It seems to me that youâre an over sensitive girl and you are taking them on your nerves. Remember that world out there is very brutal and careless. There is no room for âCute Girlsâ. You just canât buy sympathies and you have to be taught. I also feel that you are an introvert personality.
As I told you earlier, when they say you canât do anything, just ask them to have a meeting. Donât meet them immediately. Set an appointment for next day and discuss that what are their expectations and how you can meet them. Donât be emotional in the meeting and be careful using words. Just do this twice and believe me you will feel the difference because now they know that if they would say something to you, they will have to have some conversation with you, which they would like to avoid in future.
As sensible advised you, pay attention to your studies and once you clear few exams you will be senior too. This is just a matter of time. One very important issue that you must take care of is your communication skills. Trust me that you can never pass the CA Exam unless you improve your English. You neither can understand the concepts of accounting and other business subjects without it, nor can demonstrate in the exam. Spare a few hours every day to overcome this shortcoming. Control your life and be positive and productive.
I have some Para-psychological cures for your seniors but I wonât advise at this stage. However, I would suggest you a book âHow to influence people and win friendsâ. Its translation in Urdu was done by Kamal A. Rizwi âMethay Bool Main Jadoo Hayâ. I read that book when I was in grade 10. That is a wonderful book and I would strong recommend you to go through that. I think the book is available at any book store (If they exist in Karachi anymore) and it is not expensive.
Keep me posted,
Regrads,
