01-22-2010, 04:53 AM
Nice discussion of aspiring buddies!
I wonder why people are not inclined to qualify earlier by putting in extra efforts and working harder so that other envisaged key events may take place on standard timings.
In contrast guys are so concerned about the standard timings of other events but don't carry commitment of doing what can make such events far more memorable.
In my view no one should marry before
- completing education (qualifying)
- getting on a desired job, earning potential and self sustained life structure
- improving maturity level that (financially and administratively) is a must to manage a married life
- understanding a clear picture of what post marriage life demands and what additional social responsibilities will have to be shared
Certainly, in earlier age group this topic offers greater attraction and takes our buddies to dreamland but infact marriage is all about enhancing the burden of responsibilities and understanding so many facts that contribute in enhancing maturity level and a sense of sacrifice.
In 90 percent marriages, couples forget about the dreamland in a very short span of time.
So, complete your articles and much more than it before even thinking of marriage.
Regards,
Kamran.
I wonder why people are not inclined to qualify earlier by putting in extra efforts and working harder so that other envisaged key events may take place on standard timings.
In contrast guys are so concerned about the standard timings of other events but don't carry commitment of doing what can make such events far more memorable.
In my view no one should marry before
- completing education (qualifying)
- getting on a desired job, earning potential and self sustained life structure
- improving maturity level that (financially and administratively) is a must to manage a married life
- understanding a clear picture of what post marriage life demands and what additional social responsibilities will have to be shared
Certainly, in earlier age group this topic offers greater attraction and takes our buddies to dreamland but infact marriage is all about enhancing the burden of responsibilities and understanding so many facts that contribute in enhancing maturity level and a sense of sacrifice.
In 90 percent marriages, couples forget about the dreamland in a very short span of time.
So, complete your articles and much more than it before even thinking of marriage.
Regards,
Kamran.