01-22-2010, 08:35 PM
Dear Doll
I have a totally different advice for u. I have spent 4 years in one of the big four firms and my expreince says that u need to tackle this thing from the start. I am sorry no offence but u guys r just trying to make the poor girl more tense by saying tht she has some phsycological problem. Its a very normal issue. Unfortunatly female seniors r usually those with such kind of attitude (I have no idea y). I suggest that you try n b a little more confident. If they insult u then u shud not misbehave. Just smile and politely giv a reply that insults them bak. This is how they will stop. Fact is fact. we can either act like angels or just b human. If u want to b a saint who is expecting tht sab kuch chup chap bardasht karnay say things will work out to u r wrong my friend. I would also like to emphasize the fact tht u shud not misbehave with them. Cox they can spoil ur image. Make sure u dont shout or use bad language. Just smile n convey ur msg. n dont feel insulted by their remarks.
As far as the work is concerned to i agree with the others tht work is work n in the start u shud happily accept watever work u get. Remember at this stage u r being judged on ur attitude towards work n not ur skills. When i was a junior i also vouched for my seniors. Its no big deal. Ur the one whose getting a chance to learn.
Last but not the least, try to chill n dont take things to ur head. Apne parhaye ko suffer na honay do. Seniors to change ho janay hain next job par. Aisay logon ko dil say nahe lagatay. Apna nuqsan mat karo larki! Concentrate on ur quality of work n parhaye. Rest is AAlL Well )
I have a totally different advice for u. I have spent 4 years in one of the big four firms and my expreince says that u need to tackle this thing from the start. I am sorry no offence but u guys r just trying to make the poor girl more tense by saying tht she has some phsycological problem. Its a very normal issue. Unfortunatly female seniors r usually those with such kind of attitude (I have no idea y). I suggest that you try n b a little more confident. If they insult u then u shud not misbehave. Just smile and politely giv a reply that insults them bak. This is how they will stop. Fact is fact. we can either act like angels or just b human. If u want to b a saint who is expecting tht sab kuch chup chap bardasht karnay say things will work out to u r wrong my friend. I would also like to emphasize the fact tht u shud not misbehave with them. Cox they can spoil ur image. Make sure u dont shout or use bad language. Just smile n convey ur msg. n dont feel insulted by their remarks.
As far as the work is concerned to i agree with the others tht work is work n in the start u shud happily accept watever work u get. Remember at this stage u r being judged on ur attitude towards work n not ur skills. When i was a junior i also vouched for my seniors. Its no big deal. Ur the one whose getting a chance to learn.
Last but not the least, try to chill n dont take things to ur head. Apne parhaye ko suffer na honay do. Seniors to change ho janay hain next job par. Aisay logon ko dil say nahe lagatay. Apna nuqsan mat karo larki! Concentrate on ur quality of work n parhaye. Rest is AAlL Well )
