Ranking of Riaz Ahmed & Co.?

[kamranACA]

Dears

We have no conflicts or personal issues with each other that can continue without rectification. Every person could have uncountable shortcomings and no one is perfect. I am also not an exception to this rule.

I am thankful to GreatKhans for his words and regard. Using the term 'waila aadmi' for one's own-self does not harm any one even if it is directed to some one else. This is called the limit of decency and it's so nice of any one if he cares for it. Certainly he is a nice and experienced professional who knows how to write between the lines even without disturbing the balance of the write-up. I confirm that although I differ in opinion with him, still I have his due regard in my mind and that has to remain unaffected.

In my view people have priorities and different time management tools and habits to use their time. Being humans we may use it for positive or negative or even neutral purposes. However, an endeavor to utilize the time (whatever we can) for positive things is good and commendable. I believe since 2007, I have helped a lot of the people over this forum in getting rid of confusions and problems associated with their education or profession. However, this is not the only avenue on which I do this; I know a lot more can be done on so many other fronts.

As far as assumed “busy persons” are concerned, I have seen people driving motorbike on a speed of 130 KM per Hour (even on busy and dangerous roads) who have factually nothing to do in the whole day and in whole of their life as well. Our most of public sector gets relieved from their jobs at roughly 3 p.m. The majority does not do anything in rest of the time for the benefits of others. Our problem is that, we at our own, do not courage or prefer to do any thing but whenever we see some one else doing any thing positive we start feeling hurt. These are personality issues and can be seen even in school kids who feel jealousy from the ones very active on curricular or non-curricular sides. A person who is dependent upon some one (a range of bosses) in his office or in his life may not be thinking thinking out of the frame. It's difficult for such persons to learn what independence means. This again is by no means a demerit for any one if he is in such a situation. However, in such cases, it is most advisable either to learn thinking out of the box or to keep the regard of whatever positive is happening around.

We use to see some executives playing golf right at 5.00 PM or in libraries or even doing social or professional work. None of this means that they are not quality professionals or they are "waila's". Certainly every one has his priorities. So before commenting about the other that he is "waila" etc I should first evaluate myself that how much time I am wasting in my life without achieving any thing in real terms.

Some days back I was looking at the profile of a CEO (a doctor of philosophy in Law) of one of the largest set ups of mutual funds industry; and I was too surprised to see that around 10,000 articles and papers of such person have so far been published in the world renowned magazines and journals. I wonder if such person is "waila" and I wonder the ones who (in past) named me or others at this form as such have yet opened their eyes in this un-ending universe.

I know although we tend to reply queries here to help others, yet the contribution may not even worth pennies. Still, no one except me knows why I am doing this and what objective I have to fulfill one day from whatever is written and debated here. Regardless of that people are very much instrumental and when we look at them we feel ourselves as little valueless articles.

Without going in further detail, I would request all the forum members to concentrate more on what is going wrong with “me” than to find out what is wrong with “you” or “others”. This will definitely help.

For Shoaib, I wish to mention that Partners and Managers take time to be what they are; and the people who make them partner or manager very well evaluate and know the worth and merits on the basis of which they give them such responsibilities. So, it may be unjustified for the ones who have to reach at that destination to pass on negative comments. I know you are a nice fellow so keep on posting positive. People have to look at you as well since you are among the seniors and actives.

As far as knowing about myself is concerned, its not an issue. I myself can tell you who I am but preferably not on forum for obvious reasons.

Regards,



KAMRAN.