07-03-2010, 06:22 PM
A very nice topic man.
I've found that the cause of many big problems in very close n dear relations is 'misunderstanding'.
Before concluding any negative conclusion, we should try to ask the concerned person to clearify the situation. that what we are assuming he/she has done with the same intent. I think this act is very inportant for our own sake and for others. And you remind me here one of my dearest friend that he gave me second chance but the basis of that incident was misundestanding; as I didnt do the way he preceived. Still, i'm thankful for his second chance.
Now, if our findings support our judgements, than comes the point of giving chance. There is hadith that goes like this' momin aik he sanp sy do bar nhe dasa ja skta'. I think finishing the relation is not the wisdom out of it, rather we should modify our attitude towards the person and manage the relation accordingly.
Leaving a person is emotional decision; and at times may be we dont have option to leave as he/she might be our blood relative. despite this fact, i think leaving is not a wise decision.
awaiting feedback' especially of the owner of topic himslef; Kasim.
regards
I've found that the cause of many big problems in very close n dear relations is 'misunderstanding'.
Before concluding any negative conclusion, we should try to ask the concerned person to clearify the situation. that what we are assuming he/she has done with the same intent. I think this act is very inportant for our own sake and for others. And you remind me here one of my dearest friend that he gave me second chance but the basis of that incident was misundestanding; as I didnt do the way he preceived. Still, i'm thankful for his second chance.
Now, if our findings support our judgements, than comes the point of giving chance. There is hadith that goes like this' momin aik he sanp sy do bar nhe dasa ja skta'. I think finishing the relation is not the wisdom out of it, rather we should modify our attitude towards the person and manage the relation accordingly.
Leaving a person is emotional decision; and at times may be we dont have option to leave as he/she might be our blood relative. despite this fact, i think leaving is not a wise decision.
awaiting feedback' especially of the owner of topic himslef; Kasim.
regards
