09-13-2010, 09:15 PM
First of all I would like to say that both of your(arsenal, noman) point of views are quite reasonable and well thought out. Obviously, everyone is entitled to their opinion and no one person's situation is the same. I think discussion like these should be encouraged on these forums because it may save a lot of new readers from making choices without considering all of the factors. One thing is for certain though, wherever you go you will always need to work hard, have faith and will need a little bit of luck to make it big. I always prefer one should "think big" but not think recklessly. Because sometimes high risk equals high return but sometimes the risk is not worth the return.
I have met a lot of people young and old who regret decisions they made in their lives. Some regret one and some regret a series of decisions leading to their current state. But no one knows that if they hadn't made those decisions where they would have been. May they would be successful or miserable...who knows? What I am trying to say is whenever YOU make a decision YOU should be able to assess the consequences of YOUR decisions. Don't let other people make YOUR decisions. Gather all the information and keep what you like and discard what you don't. But do what YOU like or want so that in the end you don't have any regrets. And if you do just think that at one time THIS was exactly the thing you wanted, and be happy with that.
If you think you will be more successful in dubai, go there and try your luck but don't let others influence your decision because only you will have to face its effects in the end. If you do get successful there(dubai) and provide for your family here in Pakistan. There will be at least one less unhappy family in Pak. So everyone wins. But it can turn the other way as well. EVALUATE all options, make your own decisions and have the guts to live with the consequences arising from it.
I think enough with the philosophy lecture.
Note This was directed towards the OP.
Regards
I have met a lot of people young and old who regret decisions they made in their lives. Some regret one and some regret a series of decisions leading to their current state. But no one knows that if they hadn't made those decisions where they would have been. May they would be successful or miserable...who knows? What I am trying to say is whenever YOU make a decision YOU should be able to assess the consequences of YOUR decisions. Don't let other people make YOUR decisions. Gather all the information and keep what you like and discard what you don't. But do what YOU like or want so that in the end you don't have any regrets. And if you do just think that at one time THIS was exactly the thing you wanted, and be happy with that.
If you think you will be more successful in dubai, go there and try your luck but don't let others influence your decision because only you will have to face its effects in the end. If you do get successful there(dubai) and provide for your family here in Pakistan. There will be at least one less unhappy family in Pak. So everyone wins. But it can turn the other way as well. EVALUATE all options, make your own decisions and have the guts to live with the consequences arising from it.
I think enough with the philosophy lecture.
Note This was directed towards the OP.
Regards
