03-01-2011, 04:12 PM
first of all i wanna tell u tht i've beeen reading this topic for last 4 days n at once lot of thoughts come to my mind n than i dont find words for my thoughts.....
yar life is like passing the phases; like if u r in good phase than u've to go according to that, may b u can afford to adopt blund n risky approach. And than there r bad phases also n u've to b cautious, giving attention to factors tht mormally u'ld never ponder to think abt. (contrary there r people who spend their life very cautiously n there r people who dont bother abt any thing throughout their life; doing whatever they wanna do)
whatever phase one might b in, one needs the company of a friend wd whom we can discuss our inside us feelings.
throughout our lives we meet people; some get close to us n we get close to some one. it seems easy to others that one person can leave any body without pain, as he/she shows to other that he/she is cool n calm; may b inside them they r passing through a hell. but than there r other type of persons who cry like i'll die or do this or that if there is a break-up.
but the way life has occur to me(my personal experience) fact is when we r passing through difficult times than we say it is the worst time of our life n we wont b able to live if it doesnt happen my way. but at the end when all is over, we extract a lesson from our experience n than move on. as time doesnt pass. for some one moving on period is time taking n for others it is not that long.
my conclusion on making or breaking a relation n to the fact tht we r not together with one person today rest with fate only. but it doesnt like that if one has committed mistakes than we also leave that to fate. so i agree to kasim comment that life bring us what we gave already to it. n what remains wd us is only some pains, some memories n some good moments. but one important point to carry on is tht we should give great attention while making a close relation n infact we should avoid. but fact is we committ mistakes again n it goes on.
yar life is like passing the phases; like if u r in good phase than u've to go according to that, may b u can afford to adopt blund n risky approach. And than there r bad phases also n u've to b cautious, giving attention to factors tht mormally u'ld never ponder to think abt. (contrary there r people who spend their life very cautiously n there r people who dont bother abt any thing throughout their life; doing whatever they wanna do)
whatever phase one might b in, one needs the company of a friend wd whom we can discuss our inside us feelings.
throughout our lives we meet people; some get close to us n we get close to some one. it seems easy to others that one person can leave any body without pain, as he/she shows to other that he/she is cool n calm; may b inside them they r passing through a hell. but than there r other type of persons who cry like i'll die or do this or that if there is a break-up.
but the way life has occur to me(my personal experience) fact is when we r passing through difficult times than we say it is the worst time of our life n we wont b able to live if it doesnt happen my way. but at the end when all is over, we extract a lesson from our experience n than move on. as time doesnt pass. for some one moving on period is time taking n for others it is not that long.
my conclusion on making or breaking a relation n to the fact tht we r not together with one person today rest with fate only. but it doesnt like that if one has committed mistakes than we also leave that to fate. so i agree to kasim comment that life bring us what we gave already to it. n what remains wd us is only some pains, some memories n some good moments. but one important point to carry on is tht we should give great attention while making a close relation n infact we should avoid. but fact is we committ mistakes again n it goes on.
