Abnormal Marriage

[ciapk]

Isi liay Istikhara ka bola coz its mosssssssssssttttttttttttttttttttt important thing which we are missing in our decision making process.

[WARDAH]

yup it is. . .istikhara to apna bhi acha hi aya tha but mamla atka hua hai abhi tk.Allah knows better!!

[Distracted]

larky ke family k bary me not sure but i think not agreed otherwise wo abhe tak ruka na hota

[WARDAH]

hannn gher walon ko smjhana bra hi mushkil kaam hota hai.unko ye sb hzm ni hota.khair wo apni jgah theek bhi hoty hain as society ka pressure un py hi ziada hota hai k bchy to na smjh hoty hain per ap ko to aql krni chahye ti na.bla bla bla. . .

[Distracted]

but what course of action should be suggested for him......
if parents ke mane jay to pta nhe kia ho but agar na mane jay to khty hy k olad apne krna shuru ho gae hy, sunte nhe kisi ke, parents control nhe kr sky, un k ikhtiar me kuch nhe tha etc etc

[ciapk]

Istikhara acha ya bura nahi ata, Istikhara kr k kam shuro kr dain agr behter hoa tu khudi rastay bntay hain agr behter na ho tu phr khudi koi dosra rasta mil jata hay

[WARDAH]

CIAPK. . .who says k ni pta chlta k acha ya bura hai.pta chlta bhi hai han or yeh bhi hai k rsta bhi khud ba khud bnta chla jata hai.but ishary bhi milty hain istikhary mai k aya thek rhy ga ya ni.

[ciapk]

Isharay milna kahin b mentioned nahi hay and second agr isharay milain tu unhain aap or ham nahi smj saktay wohi log smj sktay hain jo Khawb ki tabeer jantay hain. As, what you will decide if you will see a fire in your dream?

[WARDAH]

to janab ap kisi sahib-e-nazr sy rabta krain na phir gr smjh na ae to.

[Distracted]

ciapk, it is said that u get to know symptoms, like u get more inclined towards that thing or start to dislike ets and if you do not get symptoms or u can not understand them than do istikhara again untill you get suriety abt the issue

[ciapk]

Dear all these are sayings only with no written authentic evidences. Wardah agr shab-e-nazer ki zarorat hoti tu Istkhara ki dua hr muslman ko buhat takeed say na sikhai jati

[Distracted]

i'll try to confirm abt this

[ciapk]

very nice, this is the spirit that i ever appreciate, search for any authentic Hadith that claims sleeping after istikhara or dreams. -)

[Distracted]

i didnt said sleeping or dreaming........
i said u may det sidnal in dream, or u may get attracted to that thing, or circumstances may lead or apart you from that thing

[ciapk]

Agar ap inhain ishara kehtay ho tu phr theek hay aisa tu hoga he agr behter hoga as the meaning of Dua - e - Istikhara do suggest that if that work is not in my favor then it should away from me and I be satisfied about the decision.