Yeah Agreed with U. Insaan ki Neeyat saaf honi chaiyay Aur thora Ander say Begharat bhi hona chaiyay............Moo bolay Rishton ki wakai koi Ehmiat nahi.
Wardah.
Pichli baar Ciapk, Aur lagta hay iss bar Kami bhai ki Misses mekaay gai hui hain hehehehehe. Isi liay becharay do-teen din say Jazbaat main sach bolay jarahay hain. Koi baat nahi Hum mardon ko bhi haq hay Apni Bharaas nikalnay ka do-chaar din k liay hi sahi )
Aur Dear tumhain kyun Afsos hua Yeh Tu dear "Har Mard ki kahani hay"
Yeah Agreed with U. Insaan ki Neeyat saaf honi chaiyay Aur thora Ander say Begharat bhi hona chaiyay............Moo bolay Rishton ki wakai koi Ehmiat nahi.
Wardah.
Pichli baar Ciapk, Aur lagta hay iss bar Kami bhai ki Misses mekaay gai hui hain hehehehehe. Isi liay becharay do-teen din say Jazbaat main sach bolay jarahay hain. Koi baat nahi Hum mardon ko bhi haq hay Apni Bharaas nikalnay ka do-chaar din k liay hi sahi )
Aur Dear tumhain kyun Afsos hua Yeh Tu dear "Har Mard ki kahani hay"
It is very rightly said "think before you leap". Your ignorant post and poor selection of words has really disturbed me.
You need to study the incident of Prophet PBUH with his adopted son Hazrat Zaid Bin Harith (R.A.). Prophet PBUH married Hazrat Zainab R.A. (the divorced wife of Hazrat Zaid Bin Harith R.A.) although she had been a wife of his "Munh Bola" Son previously; and this was done after clear WAHI from ALLAH through Quranic verses.
I told you that Islam has taught Muslims that munh bolay rishtay carry no importance.
I believe you are not aware of it because had you been aware you would have not used the dirty word which you used (I cannot repeat it). Naoozbillah.
I wonder why people lay every thing off while they select words.
If you can't speak good, you should speak a little; it is also an advice based on Islamic principle.
Yaar sahi kehtay kehtay kabhi kabhar main kuch ghalat bhi keh jata hun. Anyways "Naooz-Billah" kiss baat per likha hay Iss ki Clarification zaroor dijiyay ga jab Fursat milay tu, Takay main Edit kar sakun apni post ko Accordingly or I will Delete it completely.
Doosra aap nay farmaya k Shakal achi na ho Oh mera matlab............. Achi baat nahi kar saktay ho Tu kum baat kia karo, Agar iss per Amal kia tu mujhay Forum chorna parega )
We all are answerable for whatever we do and whatever we say and I am not a judge on any one's sayings and doings. I just called your attention to a fact and if you knowingly don't want to understand then what can be done.
We cannot use a word like "beyghairat" for the things, deeds and acts that Allah has taught us specifically and that the Prophet PBUH has not only taught us but also practiced himself. (Naoozbiillah). The west raises similar objections on Muslims and our Prophet PBUH for this very incident that was in fact as per Allah's will and Quranic order. Hazrat Zaid Bin Haris R.A. was a salve of the Prophet PBUH who was adopted by him as a son. He (R.A.) divorced his wife Hazrat Zainab R.A. and the Prophet PBUH afterwards married her. There is no permission to marry the divorced wife of a real son; but Allah eliminated the misconception of similar rule for the Adopted Sons (in fact for all Munh Bolay Rishtay).
Allah's divine wisdom decided for all the times to come through Quranic verses that Munh Bolay (adopted) relations have no reality for any one and that the limits have only been defined by Allah. This was extremely necessary to eliminate the Bida'ats we human beings cultivate by our own wrong doings. If someone (e.g. west) does not understand or establish faith on Allah's commandments, then we are only asked to explain the situation.
I don't find anything hard to understand what I pointed out. Even if you used this word for yourself when we are discussing that "Munh Bolay Rishtay ke Islam main koi Ehmiyet nahi", this is very indecent because it is exactly opposite to the Quran's guidance.
We may be cracking jokes on each other or making fun as such within allowed boundaries of moral values; yet, we should always limit our comments where Allah's commandments are quoted unless we have some valid and reliable interpretation or explanation.
I have explained my viewpoint, and due to my disliking of the words used, wish not to be dragged further in discussion on this issue.
Without going into Further Details, Main nay Lafz "Be-gharat" ko kisi Islami baat say Mansoob nahi kia tha, Kuch Shaooor hum bhi rakhtay hain Mana Aap say thora kam rakhtay hain.
I believe no Muslim should and can use these words in such connection, yet the "shaoor" demands to reflect appropriate selection of words.
Wardah Butt,
You need not to laugh buddy; avenge may be valid and honored if it is arising out of humanly matters. Here the issue is simply about a religious principle and usage of inappropriate words in that connection. If you visit western or pagan website created against islam, you will see a lot more dirty and inappropriate stuff. Therefore, at least we should be careful when we talk about our principles.
Everything we do reflects ourselves and our background, so to me it is more appropriate if we keep on caring our values, if we really have.
aray kami bhai.mujhko na ghaseetain apni behs mai, mai us py qatun ni hsi mai to bs yasir k jaldi mai apko kamrana sahb kehny py hsi thi.or mujhsy itny mushkil mushkil lfzon mai baat na kiya krain ply hi ni prtin ainwain sir dukhta hai.or msly km ni hain mairi life mai k in mushkil lfzon py apna sir khpaon......or itna to yasir ko mai b jan gai hon k usny us context mai baat ni ki thi jis mai aap ny lecture dy dala...itna mushkil kism ka bnda kion pose krty hain ap apny aap ko? 35 saal k kharos to ni hoty blky kafi handsome , chehryb py soft smile, hlka phulka mzak krny waly bndy hoty hain is age mai.kbi to soft , friendly hojaya krain.
yasir.......bi ainda plz ahtiat brtna aisy lfz na istimal hon mzak mai b ni.aik dfa post likh k thora re-read kr lia kro )