01-10-2005, 03:05 AM
Hi,
Sorry for the late reply but I decided to refrain from posting for a couple of days.
Well, the purpose of my message was that U do not need to buy her something expensive to impress her. You just have to use ur imagination, give a personal touch & show tht u care & think that she is important. Most girls just love teddy bears (For some unknown reason, I think they are useless but well...nethg goes in love or war).
Whats with the dry flowers? Man u dont need to dry those flowers! She can do it herslef (if she wants to). Give her fresh looking flowers! Pick them urself, tie a ribbon to them, arrange them nicely etc etc just to give a personal touch. Almost all girls love fresh RED roses. I am against big bouque's. I did use these when I proposed her but she couldnt keep them anywhere (u know...PAKISTANI girl, pakistani home...suspicion). So, she kept the single red rose which I was holding in my hand when I proposed her & also the small bouque which I had made myself (she did dry them...) Besides, she already knows that u can get a bouque ready made from a shop....no BIG deal...any guy with money can do that to get a girl here...she knows how DESPERATE ALL GUYS are in PAKistan to get a girl.....So try to be DIFFERENT & DISTINCTIVE...
For cards, well my art teacher (at college) taught me how to make one using Red & grey charts. Its a long procedure but......I was quite happy with the results....it was better then the professional printed ones. U can also use silver pens to make one on a dark blue background. U can also buy ready made cards & then add ur personal touch to them. This is just a MUST !!! You can write poetry, use glitter, sticking stars (not the cheap cartoons plz), small i love u hearts....nethg. I didnt make ne teady bear on the card though.
If u have to write poetry, I would highly recommend making ur OWN poetry....girls just adore this...and with a bit of imagination u can come up with it....just try...for a start...pickup some verse from somewhere & try to alter it in ur own words to suit ur needs. PLEASE just dont do CHAPPA...without any sense...If u just throw in poems from somewhere, she would guess it & then perhaps think u r trying to flirt with her. So be a bit cautious here (especially if she knows that u r not good in these things...card making...poetry etc).
So, well even if u r not good at this stuff (art, card making, poetry) like most accountants (and me too)..then I would suggest u to atleast make an effort even if the outcome is clumsy. For example, my GF knew that I was just ZERO at such stuff...but when I made an effort for her...she really got happy...girls love attention..
Be careful though. Girls in Pakistan arent sure whether a guy is flirting or is really INTERESTED in her. SO if u try to be too macho & play too cool...she might think u r flirting....On the other hand, if u try to be too much PAGAL, DEEWANa, DEVDAS type she might get scared...and go away...She might think that u have nothing else to do in the world except this & that u are a "useless NAKAM boy". Also, dont be too childish coz that gives the message that this guy is a sissy and mummy-daddy boy. So play safe within these extremes.
Lastly, I dont know why...but girls just love to hear their "TAREEF". Appreciate everything in her (only if it does exist or can exist..again if u overdo...she would guess he is flirting). But be careful, leave the appreciation of the physical features until u have said I Love U & u two have some understanding. Coz, she might think this guy is just concerned with my physical self.
Hope the tips help.
Cheers,
AvgJoe
PS Once again, these are my personal views based upon my own experience...not a bible to follow. So follow what ur heart says.
Sorry for the late reply but I decided to refrain from posting for a couple of days.
Well, the purpose of my message was that U do not need to buy her something expensive to impress her. You just have to use ur imagination, give a personal touch & show tht u care & think that she is important. Most girls just love teddy bears (For some unknown reason, I think they are useless but well...nethg goes in love or war).
Whats with the dry flowers? Man u dont need to dry those flowers! She can do it herslef (if she wants to). Give her fresh looking flowers! Pick them urself, tie a ribbon to them, arrange them nicely etc etc just to give a personal touch. Almost all girls love fresh RED roses. I am against big bouque's. I did use these when I proposed her but she couldnt keep them anywhere (u know...PAKISTANI girl, pakistani home...suspicion). So, she kept the single red rose which I was holding in my hand when I proposed her & also the small bouque which I had made myself (she did dry them...) Besides, she already knows that u can get a bouque ready made from a shop....no BIG deal...any guy with money can do that to get a girl here...she knows how DESPERATE ALL GUYS are in PAKistan to get a girl.....So try to be DIFFERENT & DISTINCTIVE...
For cards, well my art teacher (at college) taught me how to make one using Red & grey charts. Its a long procedure but......I was quite happy with the results....it was better then the professional printed ones. U can also use silver pens to make one on a dark blue background. U can also buy ready made cards & then add ur personal touch to them. This is just a MUST !!! You can write poetry, use glitter, sticking stars (not the cheap cartoons plz), small i love u hearts....nethg. I didnt make ne teady bear on the card though.
If u have to write poetry, I would highly recommend making ur OWN poetry....girls just adore this...and with a bit of imagination u can come up with it....just try...for a start...pickup some verse from somewhere & try to alter it in ur own words to suit ur needs. PLEASE just dont do CHAPPA...without any sense...If u just throw in poems from somewhere, she would guess it & then perhaps think u r trying to flirt with her. So be a bit cautious here (especially if she knows that u r not good in these things...card making...poetry etc).
So, well even if u r not good at this stuff (art, card making, poetry) like most accountants (and me too)..then I would suggest u to atleast make an effort even if the outcome is clumsy. For example, my GF knew that I was just ZERO at such stuff...but when I made an effort for her...she really got happy...girls love attention..
Be careful though. Girls in Pakistan arent sure whether a guy is flirting or is really INTERESTED in her. SO if u try to be too macho & play too cool...she might think u r flirting....On the other hand, if u try to be too much PAGAL, DEEWANa, DEVDAS type she might get scared...and go away...She might think that u have nothing else to do in the world except this & that u are a "useless NAKAM boy". Also, dont be too childish coz that gives the message that this guy is a sissy and mummy-daddy boy. So play safe within these extremes.
Lastly, I dont know why...but girls just love to hear their "TAREEF". Appreciate everything in her (only if it does exist or can exist..again if u overdo...she would guess he is flirting). But be careful, leave the appreciation of the physical features until u have said I Love U & u two have some understanding. Coz, she might think this guy is just concerned with my physical self.
Hope the tips help.
Cheers,
AvgJoe
PS Once again, these are my personal views based upon my own experience...not a bible to follow. So follow what ur heart says.
