01-07-2005, 06:10 AM
Hi,
Well, give her something which gives an impression that u deeply care for her & which shows that u made some effort in getting it.
Try finding out what she likes. Like whatâs her favourite perfume, her favourite writer (so u could get her a hard-to-find book written by him) or u know, her favourite chocolate etc. Then pick something which requires some effort.
Like when I had to say âI Love Youâ to my GF (hopefully my future fiancé), I decided to give her something special. So first, I got hold of red roses (lots of them, u cant imagineâ¦the entire back seat) & only red roses coz I knew she only likes red roses. To make it special & show that I cared for her, I hand picked one bunch from my garden & a neighbourâs garden. This was the ugliest bunch compared to the other ones (which I had got from a florist), but when I told her this she loved them most.
Secondly, my GF liked a deo spray âMilli Fluersâ, but she couldnât find it coz it was in short supply. It took me 4 days to find them after searching all supermarkets & shops in gulf. When I found them, I bought all 5 bottles. Then she liked this chocolate âglaxy flutesâ & it wasnât available anywhere too. So, I searched every nook & corner for it before finally finding them at forum. God was I happy! (You maybe thinking âgive me a breakâ but it is true!)
I also gave her a bracelet with the inscription âMy heart belongs to youâ & a jewellery set (no it wasnât gold! It just looked so beautiful to me at first sight and costed only Rs. 350â¦u can find this type of jewellery everywhere like gulf, forum but I got it from a shop infront of forum)
Lastly, I used the very LIMITED art skills I had to show her my feelings! I made her an âI Love Youâ card myself. Although, I had purchased 6 cards after roaming in about 20 shops, I wasnât satisfied. So, I gave her all these 6 & the 1 I made myself. Plus, I decorated these cards, the deo sprays & the chocolates with ribbons & stars, small âI love uâ hearts. You can find such stuff from a ladies shop (where they get those laces, ribbons, strings etc for their clothes).
So u see, its not the gift which matters, itâs the message! You donât have to give her a diamond ring to impress her. I could have easily given her something expensive but I choose this. Show ur feelings, just try to put some effort to make ur gift special. I m sure, she would really appreciate it (unless she is a flirt & after ur money!)
Take Care,
AvgJoe
Well, give her something which gives an impression that u deeply care for her & which shows that u made some effort in getting it.
Try finding out what she likes. Like whatâs her favourite perfume, her favourite writer (so u could get her a hard-to-find book written by him) or u know, her favourite chocolate etc. Then pick something which requires some effort.
Like when I had to say âI Love Youâ to my GF (hopefully my future fiancé), I decided to give her something special. So first, I got hold of red roses (lots of them, u cant imagineâ¦the entire back seat) & only red roses coz I knew she only likes red roses. To make it special & show that I cared for her, I hand picked one bunch from my garden & a neighbourâs garden. This was the ugliest bunch compared to the other ones (which I had got from a florist), but when I told her this she loved them most.
Secondly, my GF liked a deo spray âMilli Fluersâ, but she couldnât find it coz it was in short supply. It took me 4 days to find them after searching all supermarkets & shops in gulf. When I found them, I bought all 5 bottles. Then she liked this chocolate âglaxy flutesâ & it wasnât available anywhere too. So, I searched every nook & corner for it before finally finding them at forum. God was I happy! (You maybe thinking âgive me a breakâ but it is true!)
I also gave her a bracelet with the inscription âMy heart belongs to youâ & a jewellery set (no it wasnât gold! It just looked so beautiful to me at first sight and costed only Rs. 350â¦u can find this type of jewellery everywhere like gulf, forum but I got it from a shop infront of forum)
Lastly, I used the very LIMITED art skills I had to show her my feelings! I made her an âI Love Youâ card myself. Although, I had purchased 6 cards after roaming in about 20 shops, I wasnât satisfied. So, I gave her all these 6 & the 1 I made myself. Plus, I decorated these cards, the deo sprays & the chocolates with ribbons & stars, small âI love uâ hearts. You can find such stuff from a ladies shop (where they get those laces, ribbons, strings etc for their clothes).
So u see, its not the gift which matters, itâs the message! You donât have to give her a diamond ring to impress her. I could have easily given her something expensive but I choose this. Show ur feelings, just try to put some effort to make ur gift special. I m sure, she would really appreciate it (unless she is a flirt & after ur money!)
Take Care,
AvgJoe
