How to face reality

[ciapk]

Please add a list how someone can encourage himself to face realities.

[yasir_live]

Nice Topic Dear.

I think Dil bohat sakht hona chaiyay Esaay log Reality ko face kar letay hain aram say.

Secondly Accept what you are, Khud say Dhoka nahi karna chaiyay, Apnay level ko accept karo, Once yeh habbit develop ho jai ga Tu phir realities ko face karna bhi asaan hojata hay. Similarly khud ka check Rakhna bohat zaroori hay, Be neutral while evaluating your self.

Phir Thori C Laperwai bhi Achi hoti hay, Xiada sochna k Phir kya hoga ? Yeh hua Tu kya hoga ? Let it go. Jab waqt aiega tab dakhi jai gi,

Kuch bhi shruu karnay say pehlay banda soch lay k Agar iss main kuch ghalat hua In future tu main isay face karunga And I will be responsible for that, Tu yeh Ek Zehni takat ajati hay Aap k ander so u become more confident at facing realities.

To be positive is always good way to go, But you should also take negative aspects into account, this make you more prepared.

Will continue. Like to hear from other members also.

Regards.

[raza 123]

Or Allah Sabr Kerne Walon K Sath Hai.



Reality face kerne k liye Sabr huna bohut zaruri hai ....

[WARDAH]

agreed with yasir.... waisy mainy bohat sy questions mai jo mairy mind mai atay hai or u cud say dil dimagh k jng mai kaboter ki trhan ankhain bnd ki hui hain...lets the time decide what vl happen n what vl be my sudden reaction.bus Allah itni strenght dy dy k gr mairi umeedon or khuaishon k mutabiq wo swal hl na huae to mai hmt k sath sb face kron us situation ka muqabla kron , na k rona dhona kut siapy wala haal..........cos bohat sy q ap wqt sy pehly kr hi ni skty ... pta ni kio? hmt ni hoti k jawab mtlb ka na mila to kia hoga... ya phir itna aitmaad hota hai k woi hoga jawab jo hum expect krty hain.koshish to krti hon khud ko smjhati hon k will face the reality strongly but ... lets c

[Anamz1]

First of all its good to see a topic from CIAPK's side, I think its after long time.

Secondly after a long gap there is a reasonable a serious and meaningful sort of discussion-able topic.

Thirdly dear Wardah,

Don't be feared with the situation whatever it would be in fact don't get your self panic, feared and frustrated from any of the future up comings. Just leave every thing on Allah Pak and give yourself strength by believing on Him, because He always do not just good but the best with us, but sometimes we don't understand at the moment. Therefore get upset. At this time I remembered 2 sayings one from Hazrat Ali R.A "Keh insan ki pareshanian us wakat shoro hoti haon jab wo Allah ky karny waly kamon ko bhi apni zimydari samjhny lagta hai"

2nd is from Imam Ghazali "Insan ki tamam takleefon aur paresshanion ki 2 wajoohat hoti hain

i- Waqt sy pehly chahta hai
ii-Taqdeer sy ziada chhta hai


Thirdly to the topic,

Ciapk kuch realities bohat harsh hoti hain jin ko janty huay bhe face nahe karna chaty ya face karny ki himat nahe hoti as loss of parents, aisyi situations mai waqkt ki sb sy bara marham hota hai. No one can heal this pain.

[noman]

If there is a problem....there must be a solution...so find it...no tension
if there is a problem....there is no solution....u can't do any thing..move on...no tension

[WARDAH]

ab to kafi wqt ho chla ab to wqt sy pehly chahny wala scene hi ni hai ( khair mai smjh gai anum dear.tbhi to kaha tha lets the time decide )

[Astute Accountant]

Just recall this saying,

"When Allah brings you to the edge of the cliff rest assured only two things can happen. Either He will teach you how to fly or will catch you if you fall."

Th

[yasir_live]

Ciapk khud kahan ghayab ho gai ho bhayya.

[WARDAH]

wo reality ko face krny gya hai.hehehe

[yasir_live]

Wardah

Abb tak wapis ajana chaiyay tha, Lagta hay humaray mashwaray baghair parhay chala gya hay )

Chalo Topic main Topic (Farigh Log hehehe), Tu Wardah Tumhari zindagi ki abb tak sab say bari or mushkil reality kya thi jisay tumnay face kia hay. Aur uss k baad zindagi main kya change aya ? kya influence raha uska tumhari zehni halat per ???? Kya tum uss reality ko regret karti ho Ya jo hua sahi hua ?

Regards.

[WARDAH]

topic ka name n sub detail kahin sy b match ni kr rha yasir[p]......jo ho rha hai wo pta tha k hona hi hai or jin q k jawab mairay pas ni unhi k liey time ka wait kr rai hon.i mean abhi face krna hai kiya ni hai

[Safoora]

when its difficult to accept the reality, one shud remind him or herself that..
when things are goin according to ur wishes... u r lucky...
but when things arent as u wished.. then u r luckier.. caz now things are happening as ALLAH wishes..
and no doubt our LORD knows whats best for us.. )

[Sweet Ghazal]

Its true that some realities are very difficult to face.But be patient.Patience is the factor that can help you to face unexpected situations.Leave it to Allah!He'll do what is best for you.
I've always kept one thing in my mind that Allah Loves His Creature and He'll always do good with them.

[WARDAH]

yasir...itny ghmbeer swal tum ny kio pochy mujhsy?? same to u .... now ans me