Except in crisis situations, sadness has a way of coming over us slowly. It happens gradually. Itâs methodical pace is cruel because sometimes we donât see it creeping in until itâs too late.
I knew when the sadness arrived for me. I lost my motivation to take care of myself and do the things I enjoy. Instead, I surrendered to the sadness and allowed it to have power over me. I got sick, I stopped working out, and I stopped believing in myself.
I became frightened that my present would never change and I would always be damaged beyond repair.
Understanding this process is an important step to resolving it. I canât flip a switch and claim Iâm no longer sad or in pain. But, I can begin to do the things that will help reclaim my dignity and sense of self. I can do the things that will nurture my soul inside of me and assure her there is love and promise â even if itâs still a little ways out.
Each day, if I do only one thing that will help me reestablish my self-confidence then at least Iâm in the position of having power over my sadness. My power will continue to grow stronger and allow me to begin the process of claiming my life without the baggage of loneliness or sadness weighing it down.
Every time I observe, main isi conclusion per phoncha hun k aap bohat "Artificial" ho. Kuch bohat sari kitabon ka mutalla kia hay aap nay Un ki kuch baaton ko aap apni kafiat byaan karnay k liay istimal karti hain lakin Natural baatain kho jati hain iss doran.
Mujhay personally esay logon say ek waqt guzarnay k baad uljhan ho jati hay, please dont think i am hitting on u lakin generaly ek baat kar raha hun shayad bunawwati log her martaba pasand nahi atay lakin kuch bohat xiada pasand bhi ajatay hain jesay Amir liakat )
Anyways Kuch kijiyay esa jiss say boriat door ho ) Mari manain tu apnay pasandeeda resturant main jaa kar aaj khana khaiyay or thora chill kijiyyay.
Namia.
Feeling masst !!! kyun kya koi nai kahani i hay market main.........Wesay main tumsay naraz hun bohat xiada.
i m feeling much better regarding my health now.n feeling k bhnwer sy nikl to ai hon but abi kinaray tk nahi pohnchi......"musafir hon yaron na gher hai na thikana,mujhy chlty jana hai bus chlty jana"
Acha tu tum bhanwar main phassi hui thin isi liay post nahi arahi thi tumhari kafi dino sy. Aur dear meraay ghar ruk jao......Pedal kyun chalay jaa rahi ho thuk jao gi....W-11 kar lo pooray karachi main ghoomti hay.
hehehehe........Yakeen karo main karachi main rehtay huay sirf do-teen martaba W-11 main betha hun "Waterpump" say.......Woh buss kafi decorated hua karti thi iss liay abhi tak yaad hay )
Yup this mixture sort also comes on us, which also makes us a bit confused, but do not try to run from it, try to phase it, at the end it would give you either a blank feeling or just the pure serenity.