Problems with highly qualified wife

Cool Lioness · 07-19-2007, 05:33 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by sajid naveed khan
 apsay kis nay kah dia kah shohar ko shadi k baad bivi achi nahi lagti main kahta hoon pahlay say bhe ziada lagti hay ..........
lakin apni nahi humsaye ki

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See this is what i said [(]. I am thinking not to get marry at all. Because i wont bear this if my husband turned out to be the same.

sajid naveed khan · 07-19-2007, 05:36 PM

Few months after Marriage
Abhi shaadi ka pehla hi saal tha,
Khushi ke maare mera bura haal tha,
Khushiyaan kuchh yun umad rahin thi,
Ki sambhale nahi sambhal rahi thi..
Subah subah madam ka chai le kar aana
Thoda sharmate huye humein neend se jagana,
Wo pyaar bhara hath hamare baalon mein phirana,
Muskurate huye kehna ki..
Darling chai to pi lo, Jaldi se ready ho jao, Aap ko office bhi hai jaana.
Gharwali bhagwan ka roop le kar aayee thi,
Dil aur dimag par poori tarah chhayee thi,
Saans bhi lete they to naam usee ka hota tha,
Ik pal bhi door jeena dushwar hota tha..

5 saal baad........

Subah subah madam ka chai le kar aana,
Table par rakh kar jor se chillana,
Aaj office jao to munna ko
School ****te hue jana...
Suno ek baar phir wohi awaaj aayi,
Kya baat hai abhi tak chhodi nahi charpayee,
Agar munna late ho gaya to dekh lena,
Munna ki teachers ko phir khud hi sambhaal lena..
Na jane gharwali kaisa roop le kar aayi thi,
Dil aur dimaag par kaali ghata chhayee thi,
Saans bhi lete hain to unhi ka khayal hota hai,
Ab har samay jehan mein ek hi sawal hota hai..
Kya kabhi woh din laut ke aayenge,
Hum ek baar phir kunwaare Ho jaayenge.... ...!

Cool Lioness · 07-19-2007, 06:16 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by sajid naveed khan
 Few months after Marriage
Abhi shaadi ka pehla hi saal tha,
Khushi ke maare mera bura haal tha,
Khushiyaan kuchh yun umad rahin thi,
Ki sambhale nahi sambhal rahi thi..
Subah subah madam ka chai le kar aana
Thoda sharmate huye humein neend se jagana,
Wo pyaar bhara hath hamare baalon mein phirana,
Muskurate huye kehna ki..
Darling chai to pi lo, Jaldi se ready ho jao, Aap ko office bhi hai jaana.
Gharwali bhagwan ka roop le kar aayee thi,
Dil aur dimag par poori tarah chhayee thi,
Saans bhi lete they to naam usee ka hota tha,
Ik pal bhi door jeena dushwar hota tha..

5 saal baad........

Subah subah madam ka chai le kar aana,
Table par rakh kar jor se chillana,
Aaj office jao to munna ko
School ****te hue jana...
Suno ek baar phir wohi awaaj aayi,
Kya baat hai abhi tak chhodi nahi charpayee,
Agar munna late ho gaya to dekh lena,
Munna ki teachers ko phir khud hi sambhaal lena..
Na jane gharwali kaisa roop le kar aayi thi,
Dil aur dimaag par kaali ghata chhayee thi,
Saans bhi lete hain to unhi ka khayal hota hai,
Ab har samay jehan mein ek hi sawal hota hai..
Kya kabhi woh din laut ke aayenge,
Hum ek baar phir kunwaare Ho jaayenge.... ...!

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I dont know i should laugh or cry [D] [(] . Because there is a comedy and tragedy both in your poem. Most tragic sentence is the last one. HOw mean you men are [})] . Waise this is sir a sir ziyadathi. Man should understand his wife's responisbility. After kids wives hardly get time to do all those things (naaz, nakhray, laad, piyaar, sohla singhaar etc) as you mentioned in first half. Yea if husband wants her exactly as she was soon after marriage then i think they should not plan for kids. Bachay nahin hon ge tou wife waisee hi rahay gi jaise pehlay thi [)]. aur agar bachay chahiye tou he should not long to be a Kanwara again but compromise with the situation.

kamranACA · 07-19-2007, 07:08 PM

Every thing comes in different phases of life and every thing has its own beauty.

One needs to have a pure intent.

Regards,

Imran · 07-19-2007, 07:59 PM

Eighty percent of married men cheat in America. The rest cheat in Europe.

Man is incomplete until he is married. Then he is finished.

A little boy asked his father, "Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?" And the father replied, "I don't know son, I'm still paying."

First guy (proudly) "My wife's an angel!"
Second guy "You're lucky, mine's still alive."

Cool Lioness · 07-19-2007, 09:41 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by Imran
 Eighty percent of married men cheat in America. The rest cheat in Europe.

Man is incomplete until he is married. Then he is finished.

A little boy asked his father, "Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?" And the father replied, "I don't know son, I'm still paying."

First guy (proudly) "My wife's an angel!"
Second guy "You're lucky, mine's still alive."

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Do you believe in them too? I dont believe.

By the way i heard woman is complete when she becomes a mother. What about man? When you can call him a complete man?

Imran · 07-20-2007, 05:04 PM

No i dont believe. These are only jokes. Any in my point of view man is complete when he get his life partner. In short after marriage. Also i am not agree with your view point that woman is complete when she becomes a mother. Woman is complete when she got life partner. Being a mother kismat kee bat hey.

shsaeed · 07-21-2007, 09:03 PM

You Really Give Very Very Amazing Facts.

Cool Lioness · 07-22-2007, 03:42 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by Imran
 No i dont believe. These are only jokes. Any in my point of view man is complete when he get his life partner. In short after marriage. Also i am not agree with your view point that woman is complete when she becomes a mother. Woman is complete when she got life partner. Being a mother kismat kee bat hey.
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Qisamt kee baat tou hai but if a woman cannot concieve, she feels emptiness in her zaat. She has deficiency to procreate (a most important charactersitic of humans/living beings). Deficiency means incomplete, right?

And i dont second your definition of a complete man. If after getting married he is complete, then what about the case of a man with two or three wives? Woh tou super complete ho giya.

sajid naveed khan · 07-23-2007, 04:12 PM

cool lioness plz aap mukhalifat barye mukhalifat ki policy ab change kar dain imran sahib nay bari achi baat ki thee aap nay unn say bhi agree nahi kia?
waisay meray manager sahib kaha kartay hain kah agar kahin 4 educated log kisi baat par mutifaq nazar ayen to unhain unki education par shak honay lagta hay

Cool Lioness · 07-23-2007, 04:57 PM

So you also think that man and woman both are complete as soon as they find their life partners? Well may be aisa ho but meray dill ko yeh baat nahin lagthi. Life partner tou sab ko mill jaata hai. Its just one factor towards completion. AFter marriage you cannot say that now both of you are complete. Because then both needs a family. Bachon ke baghair tou you will always feel something missing in you and your life.

sajid naveed khan · 07-23-2007, 05:25 PM

after childern family will complete not a male or female
wat u say about it cool lioness

Cool Lioness · 07-23-2007, 05:36 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by sajid naveed khan
 after childern family will complete not a male or female
wat u say about it cool lioness
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Without family man and woman are incomplete. That shows rather proves that with family they are complete.

By they way what is your definition of a complete man and a complete woman?

sajid naveed khan · 07-23-2007, 06:01 PM

Man is complete when gets married but a women is complete when she gets wisdom (It means womens are always incomplete) haa haa

Imran · 07-23-2007, 07:18 PM

haha very nice. sajid naveed you are an intelligent guy. Any way Miss cool lioness you said that woman is complete after becoming mother then tell me there are hundreds of couples in this world without childrens intentionally or unintentionally so that means they are all incomplete. I dnot know its only my opinion. may be it is due to a reason that i am newly married and right now without childrens.
Be happy
Regards
Imran