What qualities u want ur spouse to have/not have?

Ali RAZA · 02-09-2010, 03:43 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by rabia-k
 1. tolerant ..i have a short temper and not much patience.

2. listen to me. he should listen to me when i am talking . i don't want to discuss my feelings and thoughts with someone who is not even listening to me.

3. i would want to hear a "YES" from him more often than a "NO"!

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tumha husband ki nahi servant ki zaroorat hay..[D]

WARDAH · 02-09-2010, 03:56 PM

@YASIR n AWAIS. . . ye star mainy khud lgae thay not from the admin just cos bar bar likhna kuck awkward lg rha tha.
@KASIM. . .itna kuch aik mai milna waqai mushkil hai so u have to compromise too,achi,aik,naik tk thek hai chess tum khud khailna sikha daina.or gr understanding hui to tum ko gud luking b lgnay lg jae gi.janab ye dilon k mamly hotay hain shkal sorat kuch meaning ni rkhti.dil ka kia hai kisi py b ajae phir wo hi dunya ki/ka haseen bndi/bnda lgnay lgta hai
@RABIA. . . yar waqai lg ni rha mian chahye lg raha hai nauker chahye.kuch to riayt karo.dominating personality lg rahi hai yun to tumhari.n one thing kisi ko bhi apny mutabiq krny ko pehlay thora us k mutabiq hona prta hai.girls should be soft.pyar say ly k chalo gi to khud tumhari trf hojae ga tumhari batain bhi ghor say sunay ga or manay ga bhi.Be caring n loving samnay wala khud value kray ga or in return u will get what u desire.
REGARDS

WARDAH · 02-09-2010, 04:09 PM

@ KASIM. . . as per asked about mine one,no body is perfect at all.jb dil ajae to achaiyan haavi ho jati hain buraion pay.or kuch compromise b krna prta hai.dhiry dhery ap smjh laitay hain ik dujay ko to manag b krna ajata hai.he z caring n loving but atitude bohat hai.shuru mai feel hota tha bt nature hai to mujhy he smjhna hai.hl ye nikala hai k mainy apni ana khtm kr di hai or pyar mai jhuk jana koi buri baat nahin.aik or baat wo gusa krain to main chup ha jati hun main krun to wo.wo hai na aik chup sau sukh.baad mai khud hi gusa thnda hota haito facts realise hotay hain mamla behter ho jata hai.waisay ye tips ziada lg rahi hain jo mainy btain bjae achai burai k but i hope u all will learn wid my xperience[)]

rabia-k · 02-09-2010, 06:02 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by WARDAH
 
@RABIA. . . yar waqai lg ni rha mian chahye lg raha hai nauker chahye.kuch to riayt karo.dominating personality lg rahi hai yun to tumhari.n one thing kisi ko bhi apny mutabiq krny ko pehlay thora us k mutabiq hona prta hai.girls should be soft.pyar say ly k chalo gi to khud tumhari trf hojae ga tumhari batain bhi ghor say sunay ga or manay ga bhi.Be caring n loving samnay wala khud value kray ga or in return u will get what u desire.
REGARDS
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wardha, i don't want a dominating husband rather he should be a friend first and then a husband. these are a few qualities i will want my husband to have and no one should have a problem with it!
both should be equally loving and caring, not just the woman. wives are lovers not mothers [)]

Muhammad Adnan Arshad · 02-09-2010, 11:07 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by rabia-k
 <blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by WARDAH
 
@RABIA. . . yar waqai lg ni rha mian chahye lg raha hai nauker chahye.kuch to riayt karo.dominating personality lg rahi hai yun to tumhari.n one thing kisi ko bhi apny mutabiq krny ko pehlay thora us k mutabiq hona prta hai.girls should be soft.pyar say ly k chalo gi to khud tumhari trf hojae ga tumhari batain bhi ghor say sunay ga or manay ga bhi.Be caring n loving samnay wala khud value kray ga or in return u will get what u desire.
REGARDS
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well said --- rabia-k
wardha, i don't want a dominating husband rather he should be a friend first and then a husband. these are a few qualities i will want my husband to have and no one should have a problem with it!
both should be equally loving and caring, not just the woman. wives are lovers not mothers [)]
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yasir_live · 02-09-2010, 11:11 PM

LoL, this is what U call as " Well Said ".

cute-doll · 02-10-2010, 12:34 AM

1-He should be full of attitude .
2-Decent and good looking .
3- Corporate person ho
4-wo shotr tempered na ho
5-Respect my family.

cute-doll · 02-10-2010, 12:37 AM

Correct spelling . word is short n shotr

rabia-k · 02-10-2010, 01:00 AM

cute doll "full of attitude"

you mean attitude towards others or you [D]

yasir_live · 02-10-2010, 02:01 AM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by cute-doll
 1-He should be full of attitude .
2-Decent and good looking .
3- Corporate person ho
4-wo shotr tempered na ho
5-Respect my family.
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Cute Doll,

Aap ko bhi Tashrian Karnaay ka Shok hay
Yaa shayad humara Naam likhnay main sharam aati hay

WaH WaH WaH WaH.

Dard · 02-10-2010, 06:08 AM

hÃh!

Ajnabi · 02-10-2010, 02:22 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by Ali RAZA
 <blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by rabia-k
 1. tolerant ..i have a short temper and not much patience.

2. listen to me. he should listen to me when i am talking . i don't want to discuss my feelings and thoughts with someone who is not even listening to me.

3. i would want to hear a "YES" from him more often than a "NO"!

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tumha husband ki nahi servant ki zaroorat hay..[D]
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Aisa to aaj kal servants bhe nahi karte, [p]
Aj kal aisay husbands ko "Juru ka Gulam", "Zan Mureed" or begairat jesay alqab say nawaza jata hai...

sorry to say Rabia, lakin aisee larkiyon say Allah sab ko Bachaiy...[8D]

Ajnabi · 02-10-2010, 02:31 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by Kasim
 wellllllllll what i wish k
bv
acchi ho
naik ho
aik ho
good looking bhi hoo
chess khailna janti hoo
books/movies/songs/travelling main intressted hooo
kamaz kam aik dajen bachooo ki khuwahish mund hooo lol
educated hooo
sense of humur accha hoo uska
co-operative ho
family k sath adjust honaywali hoo
mijhay berdasht kersakay lol
soach samjh k kherch kernaywali hoo
loving and caring bhi hoo
and blah blah blah

han ager yeah sub aik b.v main akhta hona possible na hoo tu
aik say ziyadah main bhi challay ga
lol
t.c
ur turn now
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Kasim sab,
Aisee larkiayn napaid ho gyn hain ab[D]
Wesay insan ko chader dekh kar paon philana chahiye, may Chader ka size dekhna cha raha tha if you dont mind.[8D]

sensible · 02-10-2010, 02:33 PM

huh[@]
koi rabia ko samajh hi n nahi raha, agar boys ye demand karain tou baadshah hain aur gurls zara c demand karain tou ALLAH bachaey?

Ajnabi · 02-10-2010, 03:12 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by sensible
 huh[@]
koi rabia ko samajh hi n nahi raha, agar boys ye demand karain tou baadshah hain aur gurls zara c demand karain tou ALLAH bachaey?
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Rabia say itni hamdardi hai agar apko to us k liye koi aisa Pandu dhoond den,[8D]
Mohabbat & zan mureedi are two different things, but effect of both of the words is same, if applied by any person, others will consider it as Zan Mureedi,

Wesay Sachi mohabbat karnay wala aisa prove ho sakta hai jesa Rabia chahte hai lakin milnay say pehlay aisay he khuwaish karna theeq nahi hai as i think, that's y i commented.