07-18-2010, 06:45 PM
Well it is said either you can choose to have praises or companions. You can not collect all praises and companinons together. If answer to all your questions is going to be yes than you can have more praises and less companions.
As far as i think, sharing your emotions with near & dear ones is a must and it is also a must not to share your emotions with far ones. As thay might get involved in you afterwrds as it is natural outcome i.e. when we sympathise other he/she develops soft corner for us.
I think a person has to be expressive a lot in the relationship of marriage, than with parents and sisters and also with friends. In rest of relations one need not to be....
To keep on changing ourselves for the sake of improvement is a very good thiag and hard to do. But to change ourself for the sake of others will is not a handsome practice as it leads to a hallow feeling if your relationship gets disturbed with the person for whom you changed yourself.
To say sorry is a good thing and at times it takes the sting out of conversation but sorry for the sake of avoiding urslef in not worth in future unless you committ yourself not to repeat the same.
Lastly, it is discussed widely on this forum about the practice of forgiving. But i'm always guilty of this crime i.e. not to forgive. as there are some serious limits to one's patience. what to do if the other keep on crossing your limits...... and at times you have to give punishment to teach other a lesson........
comments plz
As far as i think, sharing your emotions with near & dear ones is a must and it is also a must not to share your emotions with far ones. As thay might get involved in you afterwrds as it is natural outcome i.e. when we sympathise other he/she develops soft corner for us.
I think a person has to be expressive a lot in the relationship of marriage, than with parents and sisters and also with friends. In rest of relations one need not to be....
To keep on changing ourselves for the sake of improvement is a very good thiag and hard to do. But to change ourself for the sake of others will is not a handsome practice as it leads to a hallow feeling if your relationship gets disturbed with the person for whom you changed yourself.
To say sorry is a good thing and at times it takes the sting out of conversation but sorry for the sake of avoiding urslef in not worth in future unless you committ yourself not to repeat the same.
Lastly, it is discussed widely on this forum about the practice of forgiving. But i'm always guilty of this crime i.e. not to forgive. as there are some serious limits to one's patience. what to do if the other keep on crossing your limits...... and at times you have to give punishment to teach other a lesson........
comments plz
