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[yasir_live]

Wardah.

Haan sahi keh rahi ho, Apni Knowledge shruu honay say pehlay hi khatam ho jati hay Hahahaha.

Regards.

[WARDAH]

tumsy to khair ziada knowledge hogi mairi. p

[yasir_live]

Ek-Dairrr Feesad hi xiada hogi, jiss per tumhain itna itminan ho raha hay.

Regards.

[WARDAH]

chlo aik daid feesad hi sahi....itna hi itminaan kaaaafi hai )
chlo anumz....mr.rumi ka koi nya qaul share karo.some informative sharing from my side )

Baadshaah!!
Ik c baadsha ... o taanga kaura wondaa c,
Ik c baadsha ... auda paana cigratan daa khoka c.

[Anamz1]

Aaay hay wardah ye kia tha????,

Han ye tu hai k tum dono aaty ho is ky liay tum logon ki mairbani (ufone wali, hahaha)

Yaar mujhy hairat hai tum log Janab e Rumi ko nahe janty kabhi koi islamic channel laga k daikhna shaid kuch pata chaly tum logo ko, aur in ki shuhrat aisy hai jaisy Auliah aur Sufiyaa ki hoti hai,

Aur Wardah buddy mai ny almost in ka sara kalaam paraha aur suna hua hai bohat depth mai hotha hai yah taswuf k sath he feel kia ja sakkta hai yahan biyaan karny baithon tu alfaaz bhe khatam ho jain aur mukamal tor par biyaan bhe na ho.

[WARDAH]

shuker anumz...i heared ur voice wrna is ufone ki mairbaani py jo image bnta tumharaha ufffffff
....dear ye bhi koi mush'hoor baadsha guzry hain apny waqt k un k azeem aqwaal hain. ye aqwaal jo apny aap mai aik deep story liey huae hai us azeem baadsha ki mairay walid-e-mohtram humaray goosh guzaar kiya krtay thy humaray zamana-e-larakpan mai. is ko aql o shaaoor ki manzil py pohnch k hi smjha ja sakta hai yahan bayan krny baithon to alfaaz shuru hony sy pehly hi khatam ho jain.

jin jin ko smjh agya hai unko "Adaab arz hai!!"

[Anamz1]

Oaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay Wardah! ....................................................... Bus kar dy yaar ye koi badshah nahe thay...............................

[WARDAH]

thaaaaaaaaaaaaaay!! to tum kia ye sabit krna chahti ho k bus tum hi kaam ki baat kr skti ho.hum ni kr atky?? [(] tum ny humka aisa smjha hua hai....bohat afssos hua.shidat-e-jzbaat sy mairi to ab unglian bhiii nnnni chhhal p aaaaa rahiiin keyboard py.dil mai ghm ka tofaan brpa ho gya hai.ankhain ansuon sy jal thal ho gai hain.qadam hain k zameen py hi jm gae hain uth hi ni paa rahay.alfaaz kahin kho sy gae hai k izhaar kia karon.[(]

[ciapk]

Jo Wardah nay bola wo bilcul be smaj nai aya or jo Mollana Jalal Udin Roomi nay farmaya us say buhat si batoon say mera ikhtelaf hay lehaza main main kia kahoon -)

[Anamz1]

Oay maaf kar do saary mujhy mera khayal hai mujy ye topic he del kar daina chaiy.

Kahan aa gai main....................................

[ciapk]

Maaf kia Maaf kia Maff kia -)

[Anamz1]

Maaf kar dia tu yah bhe bata dain aap k topic del kaisy karty hain, del ki option nahe aa rahe.

[ciapk]

Delete ki option us waqt tak ap k pass hoti hay jb tak kisi dosray nay us main post na ki ho, ab ap buhat late ho gai ho ji. Admin ki madad chahyay hogi. ya phr is topic main apni apni posts delete kr dain tb shaid.

[yasir_live]

Anamz.

Post Ya poora Topic ? I mean Yeh poori Thread Delete karnay k chaker main hain Aap ? Tu dear iss k liay tu aap nay posting karnay main Aur members nay Parhnay main khoob mehnat ki thi, Haina ?

Lagta hay humare Roomi k baray main comments aap nay bohat dil per lay liay, Chalain Ainda say tareef kar dia karain gay is Roomi-Shoomi ki. Mujhay un ka kalam samajh nahi aya lakin hairat hay aap nay kahaa k Aap nay bohat gehrai main jaa ker parha hay, kya kisi khai-Wai main beth kar parha hay ) Kidding.

Dear Topic delete mat kijiyay ga iss main Achi collection hay, I am sure bohat sare silent members hongay jo iss thread say guzartay hongay As U know 6000+ readers hain abhi tak iss kay.

Regards.

[ciapk]

60 Tips to make your wife Happiest.

1. Make her feel secure; (sakina- tranquillity) QUIT BEING AGGRESSIVE

2. When you go home say 'Assalamualaikum. ' (Greetings) It kicks the shaitaan out of your home!

3. Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) described the wife as a fragile vessel and said to take care of this vessel that’s fragile. Remember that there is goodness in this vessel so treat it gently.

4. When you advise her, do so in privacy, in a peaceful environment. NOT IN PUBLIC as it’s a type of slandering.

5. Be generous to your wife- it keeps her LOVED

6. Move and let her have your seat. It will warm her heart.

7. AVIOD ANGER. HOW? Keep your wudu at all times. Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said if you are angry, sit down, if you’re sitting, then lie down. Follow the sunnah!

8. Look good and smell great for your wife. IT keeps the LOVE!

9. Don’t be rigid. It will break you. Prophet Mohammed – sallallahu alaihi wa sallam (SAW means “May the blessings and the peace of Allah be upon him” (Muhammad).) said 'I am the best amongst you and I am the best to my wife'. Being rigid and harsh will not bring you close to Allah and neither does it make you more of a man.

10. Listen to your wife-BE a GOOD LISTENER

11. YES to flattering NO to arguing. Arguing is like poison in a marriage. Al zawai said 'When Allah (swt) wants evil for people He will leave them to argue amongst themselves'.

12. Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said to call your wives with the best name, any name she loves to hear. Prophet Mohammed sallallahu alaihi wa sallam called Aisha 'ya Aish' as an endearment.

13. Give her a pleasant surprise. I.e. if she loves watermelon, bring her one out of the blue. It will grow the love in her heart.

14. Preserve your tongue! Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said the tongue will throw people in the hell fire so watch what you say and how you say it!

15. All of us have shortcoming. Accept her shortcoming and Allah (swt) will put barakat in your marriage.

16. TELL her you appreciate her. SHOW her you appreciate her.

17. Encourage her to keep good relation with her relative, her mum and dad etc.

18. Speak with her with a topic of HER interest.

19. In front of her relative praise her. Confirm/ realize that she is wonderful, and that she is a good person in front of her family.

20. Give each other gifts. You will love each other more. Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said gifts increases love.

21. Get rid of the routine once in a while, surprise her with something, it will get rid of the rust and polish it!

22. Husnul zaan- We have a demand from Allah (swt) that we have to think good of people. Think good of your spouse.

23. Ignore some of her mistakes- pretend you did not see/hear some of her small mistakes. It was a practice of Ali (RA). It’s like putting a hole in your memory. Don’t save it in your memory!

24. Increase the drops of patience, especially when she is pregnant or when she is on her monthly period.

25. Expect and respect her jealousy. Even Aisha (ra) used to get jealous.

26. Be humble. If your profession is good, respect that she is looking after your children, she is much more than you, she is the leader at home, her strength is your strength, and her success is your success.

27. Don't put your friends above your wife.

28. Help your wife at home. Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam used to help his wives at home and he was the best of creation. He used to sew his own clothes.

29. Help her respect your parents, you can’t force her to love them, but she can be helped to gradually love them.

30. Show your wife she is the ideal wife.

31. Remember your wife in your duaas. It will increase the love and protect it.

32. Leave the past. It brings nothing but pain and grief. It’s not your business. The past is for Allah (swt).

33. Don't try to show her that you are doing her a favour by doing something, like buying food for the house, because in reality we are the courier of sustenance, not the providers, as Allah is the provider. It’s also a way of being humble and thankful to Allah (swt)

34. Shaitaan is your enemy, not your wife. Sometime when husband and wife are talking a fight breaks out, then shaitaan is present there as a third person so he is the real enemy. It is not enough to hate the shaitaan, but you have to see him as an enemy as Allah has commanded. Shaitaan loves divorce. HE comes everyday and sits office and asks the devils what they have done, some say i have made a person steal, or i have made someone drink etc. And one devil will say i have made a man divorce his wife, and he is crowned as the one who has done the best job.

35. Take the food and put it in her mouth. Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam taught us this. It’s a blessing. The food doesn’t just go to her stomach, but straight to her heart. It increases the love and mercy between you.

36. Protect your wife from the evil of the shaitaan and mankind. She is like a precious pearl that needs protecting from the envy of human devils and shaitaan.

37. Show her your smile. Smile at your wife. IT’S A CHARITY.

38. Small problems/ challenges can become a big problem. Or if there is small thing she didn't like and you keep repeating them anyway, it will create a wall between you. Don’t ignore them as it can become big.

39. Avoid being harsh hearted and moody. Allah said of prophet (saw) 'if you were harsh hearted they (the companions) would have left you.' It confirms prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam was not harsh hearted, so GET RID OF IT.

40. Respect her thinking. It’s strength for you. Show you like her thoughts and suggestions.

41. Help her to achieve her potential and help her to dig and find success within as her success is your success.

42. Respect the intimate relationship and its boundaries. Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said she is like a fragile vessel and she needs to be treated tenderly. Sometime she may not be feeling well; you must respect and appreciate that feeling.

43. Help her to take care of the children. Some men think it makes them appear less of a man but in fact it makes you appear a bigger man and more respected, especially in the sight of Allah (swt).

44. Use the gifts of the tongue and sweet talk her. Tell her she looks great, be an artist. Pick and choose gifts of the tongue.

45. Sit down and eat with her and share food with her.

46. Let her know you are travelling. Don't tell her out of the blue as it’s against Islam. Tell her the date/ time of when you are coming back also.

47. Don't leave the house as soon as trouble brews.

48. The house has privacy and secrecy. Once you take this privacy and secrecy to your friends and family you are in danger of putting a serious hole in your marriage. This secrecy stays home. Islam is against leaving them out like a garage sale for anyone to come and pick and choose.

49. Encourage each other for ibadah, i.e. plan a trip for hajj or umrah together. It increases and strengthens the love when you help each other perform a good deeds together i.e, do tahajuud together,or go to a dars together etc.

50. Know her rights, not only written in paper but engraved in your heart and engraved in your conscious.

51. Allah( swt) said 'live with your wives in kindness.' Treat them with kindness and goodness. It means in happy times and in sadness treat her with goodness and fairness.

52. Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam showed that at the time of intimacy. Don’t jump on your wife like an animal!

53. When you have a dispute with your wife don’t tell everyone. It’s like leaving your wounds open to germs so be careful who you share your problems and disputes with.

54. Show your wife you really care for her health. Good health of your wife is your good health. To care for her health shows her that you love her.

55. Don’t think you are always right. No matter how good you are you have shortcomings. You are not perfect as the only one who was perfect in character was prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam Get rid of this disease.

56. Share your problems, your happiness, and your sadness with her.

57. Have mercy on her weakness. Have mercy when she is weak or strong as she is the fragile vessel. Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said that your wife is a trust in your hand.

58. Remember you are her strength, someone to lean on in times of hardship.

59. Accept her as she is. Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said that women are created from the rib which is bent. If you try to straighten her you will break her (divorce). Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said that you may dislike one habit in her but you will like another manner in her so accept her as she is.

60. Have good intention for your wife all the time, Allah monitors your intention and your heart at all times. Allah (s.w.t) said Among His Signs is that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect.