07-26-2010, 04:17 PM
<b>Its about types of people we meet in routine life</b>
⢠Very much common type of people is people who may represent themselves as good/pleasant nature holder but as u spend time with them u come to know that their goodness/ pleasance is just a cover hiding their ugliness within itself. Though these people are clever enough but in very short time u succeed to find out their reality (if you are good enough to understand people and to judge them) without any material damge/loss caused by them to yourself.
⢠There are people quiet reverse of above type people these people deliberately show themselves as having negative personality they themselves want u to think bad about them they will tell u fake/ exaggerated things about themselves just to show that how bad they are but in fact they are not such bad and may be not bad at all and you will find that out with passage of time. These people though themselves present their own selves as bad souls but some times when some one judge them according to what they have themselves told him they mind it. At then they need to recall Hazrat Aliâs saying
âAgger koi khud ko logon k samnay bura banata hay or jab log ous ko bura samjhnay lagain tu iss main khata logon ko nahi hay ous banday ki hayâ (itâs the grasp of his saying may God forgive me for not quoting his proper wordings)
They just do this because they want to surprise others by showing later that they are not bad that much or may be because they have complex personality. Normally these types of people are very sincere towards their friends etc. however mostly they are understood vice versa and the best thing is that they do know this but donât care about this as they know they are good from inside God knows this so why to make people agree upon this. These are the people who like this verse of Holly Quran very much
âAmmloo ka darurmadar neeyatoon pay hayâ
<b>Yasir I think so at least u will agree upon existence of such type of people </b>
⢠However there is another type of people relevant to above two types, people who present themselves bad to others (in very start when they meet some one) so that others may know that they are not good / innocent souls but in fact such people are more corrupt then they represent themselves. And when later on the other person comes to know this fact such people easily say we have already told u every thing about ourselves in the very beginning it is your own fault k u didnât understand that and find out what other attributes/characteristics/habits/attitudes that could be related/attached to our personalities in addition to whatever we have told u . These are very sharp type of people not easily understandable/ judge able. You always feel confusion about them and remain double minded even if you are good enough to understand people in general.
⢠There are people who are never open book. They canât share any thing only because they think each thing is related to another thing so if they are to tell one thing they will have to tell its background then its background and so on so it will be a long story to tell and even if they tell so it will be of no use.
⢠There are people who look like open book you may think about them k they tell each thing to you but these are clever enough to hide few facts at all from you or to delay in telling the facts or change the timing of happening/not happening of facts. So dangerous type of people these are u may be thinking k they tell u every thing that happens/comes to them but only they know what they have told and what they have not told u.
⢠There are people who are clever enough to make you feel that you can ride on them they themselves make you believe that you can control them. they make you think as if u have dominate personality over them but in fact such people play with u by allowing you to play with them such people are not the hunt in themselves but the hunters. At this point I recalled wording of Mumtaz Muffti
âkuch log dosrron k samnay khud ko khilona bana ker paish kertay hain k log un say khailain jub k haqeeqat main woe khud khilari hotay hain and dosroon k sath khail rahay hotay hainâ
⢠There are people who have to spend good time with anyone/every one they get frank with every one they look like friendly to every one but in fact they are just passing their time and in fact are not friend of any one except of their interests.
⢠There are people who seem clever enough and in fact are clever too but from inside are innocent also.And you know the fact later only after having some quality and quantity of time you spend with them.
⢠Chewing gum type people they donât give u space they are in fact very sincere type of people mostly but they cant understand importance of time and space to give to others for such people a poet has said well
âYeah naye mizaaj ka shaher hay yahan faslay say mila karoo
Abb iss kadar kareeb bhi na aoo k daam nikal jayeâ
⢠People who may be seen as Tang urranay walay,Harshly baat kernay walay,Mode/attitude dekhanay walay may not be like same from inside but they have manufacturing faults due to which they represent themselves in this way but with passage of time they may overcome their weakness.
<b>Tip</b> Whenever you meet some one u got some sort of feeling(s) about him (in 1st meeting or few of initial meetings) which may or may not have any reason(s)/ground(s)/base(s) this feeling is so much important. The person will continue to give you more diversified and detailed judgments of himself later on and you will have more believe on later ones but there will be time when such person comes openly in front of u or deceive you or do some thing which u were totally not expecting from him and then u will recall that very initial feeling with sad feelings k I knew this person is of that type from very beginning but I myself was stupid to forget my initial judgment. Obviously till then he would have caused u great damage/loss till that time.
Hope so u people will also share the feelings/judgment/experiences you have regarding people u ever met.
Regards
⢠Very much common type of people is people who may represent themselves as good/pleasant nature holder but as u spend time with them u come to know that their goodness/ pleasance is just a cover hiding their ugliness within itself. Though these people are clever enough but in very short time u succeed to find out their reality (if you are good enough to understand people and to judge them) without any material damge/loss caused by them to yourself.
⢠There are people quiet reverse of above type people these people deliberately show themselves as having negative personality they themselves want u to think bad about them they will tell u fake/ exaggerated things about themselves just to show that how bad they are but in fact they are not such bad and may be not bad at all and you will find that out with passage of time. These people though themselves present their own selves as bad souls but some times when some one judge them according to what they have themselves told him they mind it. At then they need to recall Hazrat Aliâs saying
âAgger koi khud ko logon k samnay bura banata hay or jab log ous ko bura samjhnay lagain tu iss main khata logon ko nahi hay ous banday ki hayâ (itâs the grasp of his saying may God forgive me for not quoting his proper wordings)
They just do this because they want to surprise others by showing later that they are not bad that much or may be because they have complex personality. Normally these types of people are very sincere towards their friends etc. however mostly they are understood vice versa and the best thing is that they do know this but donât care about this as they know they are good from inside God knows this so why to make people agree upon this. These are the people who like this verse of Holly Quran very much
âAmmloo ka darurmadar neeyatoon pay hayâ
<b>Yasir I think so at least u will agree upon existence of such type of people </b>
⢠However there is another type of people relevant to above two types, people who present themselves bad to others (in very start when they meet some one) so that others may know that they are not good / innocent souls but in fact such people are more corrupt then they represent themselves. And when later on the other person comes to know this fact such people easily say we have already told u every thing about ourselves in the very beginning it is your own fault k u didnât understand that and find out what other attributes/characteristics/habits/attitudes that could be related/attached to our personalities in addition to whatever we have told u . These are very sharp type of people not easily understandable/ judge able. You always feel confusion about them and remain double minded even if you are good enough to understand people in general.
⢠There are people who are never open book. They canât share any thing only because they think each thing is related to another thing so if they are to tell one thing they will have to tell its background then its background and so on so it will be a long story to tell and even if they tell so it will be of no use.
⢠There are people who look like open book you may think about them k they tell each thing to you but these are clever enough to hide few facts at all from you or to delay in telling the facts or change the timing of happening/not happening of facts. So dangerous type of people these are u may be thinking k they tell u every thing that happens/comes to them but only they know what they have told and what they have not told u.
⢠There are people who are clever enough to make you feel that you can ride on them they themselves make you believe that you can control them. they make you think as if u have dominate personality over them but in fact such people play with u by allowing you to play with them such people are not the hunt in themselves but the hunters. At this point I recalled wording of Mumtaz Muffti
âkuch log dosrron k samnay khud ko khilona bana ker paish kertay hain k log un say khailain jub k haqeeqat main woe khud khilari hotay hain and dosroon k sath khail rahay hotay hainâ
⢠There are people who have to spend good time with anyone/every one they get frank with every one they look like friendly to every one but in fact they are just passing their time and in fact are not friend of any one except of their interests.
⢠There are people who seem clever enough and in fact are clever too but from inside are innocent also.And you know the fact later only after having some quality and quantity of time you spend with them.
⢠Chewing gum type people they donât give u space they are in fact very sincere type of people mostly but they cant understand importance of time and space to give to others for such people a poet has said well
âYeah naye mizaaj ka shaher hay yahan faslay say mila karoo
Abb iss kadar kareeb bhi na aoo k daam nikal jayeâ
⢠People who may be seen as Tang urranay walay,Harshly baat kernay walay,Mode/attitude dekhanay walay may not be like same from inside but they have manufacturing faults due to which they represent themselves in this way but with passage of time they may overcome their weakness.
<b>Tip</b> Whenever you meet some one u got some sort of feeling(s) about him (in 1st meeting or few of initial meetings) which may or may not have any reason(s)/ground(s)/base(s) this feeling is so much important. The person will continue to give you more diversified and detailed judgments of himself later on and you will have more believe on later ones but there will be time when such person comes openly in front of u or deceive you or do some thing which u were totally not expecting from him and then u will recall that very initial feeling with sad feelings k I knew this person is of that type from very beginning but I myself was stupid to forget my initial judgment. Obviously till then he would have caused u great damage/loss till that time.
Hope so u people will also share the feelings/judgment/experiences you have regarding people u ever met.
Regards
