07-26-2010, 04:48 PM
well what i'm going to write i myself rarely practice it.
I think one should have his/her style of treating with people and i feel best is one that we find in "islam" i.e. help other in his/her right cause and dont help vice versa. this is the only thing that can save us from cheaters. or even at times our sincere friends may ask us to help them in wrong things and it doesnt mean that they r cheaters but if we follow our principle than we can better manage our relationship.
And than the situation is where we have to ask help from others, than it is obvious that we can not ask our every friend to help as the option of asking lands with A FEW of our friends, where the chances of cheating are far and few as theses one r tested over a long long span of time. And of they help; than this what we anticipated in beginning before asking them and if they dont than u'll tell urself that there was some wrong happened with him/her even before he/she will explain u the reason.
I think one should have his/her style of treating with people and i feel best is one that we find in "islam" i.e. help other in his/her right cause and dont help vice versa. this is the only thing that can save us from cheaters. or even at times our sincere friends may ask us to help them in wrong things and it doesnt mean that they r cheaters but if we follow our principle than we can better manage our relationship.
And than the situation is where we have to ask help from others, than it is obvious that we can not ask our every friend to help as the option of asking lands with A FEW of our friends, where the chances of cheating are far and few as theses one r tested over a long long span of time. And of they help; than this what we anticipated in beginning before asking them and if they dont than u'll tell urself that there was some wrong happened with him/her even before he/she will explain u the reason.
