Problems with highly qualified wife

[sajid naveed khan]

Imran Bhai phir to aap Mubarakbad k mustihaq tahray
waisay bahbi "Highly qualified" to nahi hain?

[Cool Lioness]

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<br />Man is complete when gets married but a women is complete when she gets wisdom (It means womens are always incomplete) haa haa
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Sajid Sahib how is it possible that man is complete after having an incomplete thing with him?

[sajid naveed khan]

Man is complete when gets married
main nay yah baat nahi ki kah uski tumam cheeezain complete honi chahyan
waisay to uska office work b incomplete ho sakta hay to phir kia aap yah kahain gee man is incomplete then too
main sirf uski zaat tuk ki baat karta hoon

[kamranACA]

Dears,

In my view, there is a difference between a complete person and a complete family. God has created a man/woman complete in all respects and it is the best creature.

However, for completing a family one (either man or woman) needs to get married and to concieve kids. Yes, of course if some couple does not concieve kids in the long run, they feel a great deficiency.

May God bless every one with a perfect life.

Regards,

Kamran.

[Imran]

Miss cool loiness

i think sajid is kiding otherwise i am not in an opinion that woman is incomplete. Both of man and woman are two wheels of a vehicle and vehicle is life you life cant be run in the absence of any of them. And i am also of the opinion that man is complete when he gets marry. But your opinion was that after kids.

[sajid naveed khan]

imran sahib your vehicle just completed thats why u call it as wheels of vehicle but after 5 years u will agree me
5 saal baad........

Subah subah madam ka chai le kar aana,
Table par rakh kar jor se chillana,
Aaj office jao to munna ko
School ****te hue jana...
Suno ek baar phir wohi awaaj aayi,
Kya baat hai abhi tak chhodi nahi charpayee,
Agar munna late ho gaya to dekh lena,
Munna ki teachers ko phir khud hi sambhaal lena..
Na jane gharwali kaisa roop le kar aayi thi,
Dil aur dimaag par kaali ghata chhayee thi,
Saans bhi lete hain to unhi ka khayal hota hai,
Ab har samay jehan mein ek hi sawal hota hai..
Kya kabhi woh din laut ke aayenge,
Hum ek baar phir kunwaare Ho jaayenge.... ...!

[sajid naveed khan]

i wuld like to ask both of u. Cool , Imran
R u going to make a perfect man or woman?
if u r talking about "A MAN" and "A WOMAN" then y r u talaking about a family or vehicle ?
i m fully agreed with Imran that "MAn and woman are two wheels of a vehicle" but of a family not individual

[Cool Lioness]

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<br />Miss cool loiness

i think sajid is kiding otherwise i am not in an opinion that woman is incomplete. Both of man and woman are two wheels of a vehicle and vehicle is life you life cant be run in the absence of any of them. And i am also of the opinion that man is complete when he gets marry. But your opinion was that after kids.
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Ok let it take in this way. A male and a female are created to carry out different jobs, with different names, in this world. Male is first son, brother, and then he becomes husband, father, grand father and then he dies. Same goes for a woman. She is suppposed to be a daughter, sister then wife, mother, grand mother and great grand mother (if life allows). So i think if a man or a woman goes thru all these stages or phases, he/she definitely completes the cycle of life.

I say that woman and man are definitely incomplete until they procreate the childern. I fully agree that The most important stage in ones life is when he/she becomes someone's life partner and their positions are changed to husband and wife in few minutes. We say it a begining of new life. But think for a moment if we expel the fatherhood and motherhood from a male or female's life, undoubtedly it will create a big space in their lives. IF they do not get the kids, they can be never a father n mother, grand father n grand mother, they are totally missing out the most important role of their lives. Their life gets stagnant on one point. That is just husband and wife to eachother. Once you get marry you do not have any other wish except that your partner is loving and you become a father or a mother. So many boys remarry just for the sake of having kids, in case his wife is unable to concieve. And remarrying for this cause is permitted in Islam too.

I am wondering that You are boys/man and still denying the fact that fatherhood is not the completion of your personality. Without having a son or daughter you do not have any heir for your property. You do not have anyone who can remember you when you are no more. No one to keep your name alive in this world.

Islam has given a very high rank to a father and mother. Mother has got the Janat under her feet and father is the door of that janat. YOu cannot enter the janat until you open the door.

[Imran]

From your post it seems to me that i was against the kids. No way. Actually we are talking about the completion of man and woman. Not of having kids or not having kids. both are different issues. Right here the topic for discussion is completion of man and woman.

1. Tell me if a couple get marry and they are unable to get kids. Will this means that they are incomplete and they will remain incomplete.

2. 2ndly please tell me this with reference that in Islam man is allowed to marry other woman if he is unable to get kids from the woman because its new to me.

Regards
Imran

[Cool Lioness]

1. <b>Tell me if a couple get marry and they are unable to get kids. Will this means that they are incomplete and they will remain incomplete.</b> Yes ofcourse they will remain incomplete untill they are not blessed by our Creator. Incomplete doesnt mean that you are Godforbid handicape or something. Its just that you miss out a very important relation in your life.

<b>2. 2ndly please tell me this with reference that in Islam man is allowed to marry other woman if he is unable to get kids from the woman because its new to me.</b> i will definitely get some references for you. Let me get little bit free from my office works. But I am sure that this is One of the reasons to have 2nd wife. It is that man is allowed to marry 2nd wife in case his first wife is unable to concieve. It is up to the husband if he doesnt want kids and stick to his first wife but if he needs kids for his Waarasat, then he has the right. Otherwise what do you think that how come a muslim man is allowed to have maximum four wives? There should be some solid reason behind remarrying. Otherwise Just for fun sake you cannot remarry.

[Imran]

This means that kids are necessary for the completion of man. Quite strange phenomenon for me as I hear it first time. Though i am not against kids but i dont think so that without kids someone is incomplete. Any way every one has his / her own views

[Cool Lioness]

Imran bhai you are saying this coz you are just married. And usually couple do not want to go into kids soon after marriage. Coz they see their whole world in each other. But aahista aahista aap khud aik din kids kee khwahish karo ge. Not because Godforbid the love between you two will be reducing but actually its quite natural demand or urge. aur yahan se tou asal mohbat start hothi hai. Anyway you will realize it soon. When bhabi is expecting do tell me how did you feel about that.

[Imran]

You are wrong i am father of newly born daughter. I love kids and also my wife very much because meri wife mujay bahut muhkil say milli hey. Reason i shall tell you in other topic if you fall in love with some one

[Astute Accountant]

Imran Bhai, what is the name of my "bhateeji"? Agar abhi naam nahi rakha tu main batoon? Mujhay naam rakhay ka bahuuuuuuuuuuut shook hai? Kia karon adat se majboor hoon.

[Imran]

My Sweet Brother.

Her proposed name is HORIA but its not final.Any way if you have some good names do contact me at [email protected] because here such type of discussion is not better.
Regards
Imran